"Who told "women" that? Or do you mean some idiots on a discussion board told you? And that then justifies your sweeping generalisation? "
You have literally zero idea what you are talking about and obviosuly haven't read either of the links I have posted.
Seeing as you have literally no idea what you're talking about, I'm not sure why you're trying to have a conversation about it.
ZERF I was 16 in 1990 and remember it all well
Oasis as far as I could see were the sort of crossover that led the mainstream into the places where the alternative types had been for years and it was a very different vibe, all the indie / goth / metal / crossover dance hiphop things were suddenly hosting these very laddy, pissed up blokes who had a different attitude to the scene and the girls (from my experience) to the people we were used to. I liked (and still like) some of their songs but overall, not so much. Lots of DH friends are into Oasis and they were more dance/casual type scene - we went to totally different places growing up and wouldn't have mixed in the same circles at all.
Same as happened with the radio station I think - it started out very much about the music / alternative boys and girls doing their thing together and then it gets switched over to this very different "lads" vibe which in the case of the radio station explicitly said "not for girls".
The good thing is round where I live there are some discos for old school alternative types and they are the most excellent fun 