Brain scans of by now thousands of people have conclusively shown that there are no male or female brains. With this people mean not the brain that is found inside a biological male or female but the brain of someone with feminine traits who is therefore a "typical woman" or masculine traits and "typical man".
I am sorry, I am writing and looking after DC at the same time, but is this not the crux of the matter - there ARE no innate masculine or feminine traits, because society may determine something is not feminine and then 100 years later, it is accepted as perfectly normal.
So, it was seen as 'unwomanly', therefore masculine, to be an educated professional woman in the late nineteenth century, and there were fears that women would become infertile and lose their looks from too much studying; whereas now, our laws and norms mean that half of all university graduates are female, and no-one is arguing that female graduates are 'manly' and therefore less fertile and less attractive. So, what is seen as masculine and feminine traits is fluid, not static.
So, on that level, to talk about a female and a male brain is meaningless, as it is dependent on how society views and values certain traits. I always understood gender to be the term used to describe these socially-constructed, and therefore malleable, challengeable and flexible in an individual.
Gender is separate, less well-defined. It refers to your own perception of your maleness or femaleness and whether this matches your physical sex, and is quite possibly a spectrum.
I think this is how gender has been re-defined by the trans lobby. This is not a definition that I have seen until relatively recently, and if you look at documents where trans groups have been on advisory boards or panels, the language around this is almost word for word the same. Gender as used in this way re-shaped the previous definition of something socially constructed and external, to an internal relationship with one's physically sexed body. It did not previously have that meaning.
So, my question would be when did gender change from being accepted as socially defined sex roles, to some nebulous and immeasurable concept inside one's brain?
Anyone who ever challenges the idea that being female means embodying the external, socially accepted ideas of femininity would struggle with this internal-brain definition of gender, to be honest, because what does 'feeling like a woman' actually mean? It can only be grounded on external appearances of being a woman, which may extend to physical embodiment and appearances of female humans (and that is all a non-female person can experience). Because the actual lived experience of being a woman can only be experienced by actual women, unless I am missing something, that is logical.
So, we are being asked to expand what being a woman means. Whereas, what is necessary is expanding the confines of masculinity and femininity (or doing away with such definitions of appearance and behaviour altogether), so that there is no such thing as a perceived 'female brain' in terms of perceived feminine traits, there is just the brain of an adult with certain personality traits and ways of being, in either a female or a male human body.
I don't know, I struggle as I really do not know how to use gender any more as a concept. I don't think it is helpful, because in society, it is used to mean sex, gender as a social construct and gender as this nebulous thing in your head - all of which have contradictory meanings and implications.