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It would be great to get a response from BACP. I wrote to the magazine but haven't had an official response:
What a pity you felt a need to publish a letter of apology on your website, about the letter you published from Stephanie Davies-Ari concerning your December 2017 article ‘Putting gender on the agenda.’
Naturally, the opinions of letter writers need not reflect the editorial line of a magazine. You say that you ‘fully accept that this letter should not have been published’ but don’t explain why, other than that BACP ‘is in complete opposition to the position and values of Transgender Trend.’ What this issues needs above all is reason, calm and discussion, but your letter read as a denunciation. I’m sorry that you could not extend some understanding to Stephanie Davies-Ari.
In your article you yourself recognise that the issue of children “is a particularly sensitive area”; that there are “distressed parents, who are struggling to understand”; that “counsellors tend to be nervous” about doing this kind of work; that our "state of knowledge is very patchy”; and that young people can change their minds. Your letter betrays just what a jittery situation this has become.
Naturally, you come at this issue from the specialist perspective of your magazine’s readers and Stephanie Davies-Ari has a different perspective. Both have valid contributions to make in this complex area.
What troubled me most was BACP saying they were 'in complete opposition to the position and values of Transgender Trend' because that's stepping way beyond the content of Stephanie's letter. And surely the values of Transgender Trend are eminently sensible and inoffensive - how could a reasonable person be in complete opposition to them?