She's very calm and measured in how she handles them though.
I find a lot of the "this is why cis women like you; you're denying your womanhood" type responses so disingenuous though.
She doesn't once deny her 'woman'ness. All she says is that she is not female and cannot share that experience. That's just a fact. How can anyone object to that and retain any credibility?
And this is what is confusing the issue. I am actually more than happy to share public toilets, cubicled changing rooms etc with TWomen like her and always have been.
The people who throw all of my walls and barriers up are the L Ms of the world who insist that they are the same and attempt to ban any reference to any female experience they cannot share.
This is where it becomes not about different kinds of women and all about erasure. Especially when some of those 'different' women are blatantly and obviously men.