Have seen this kind of thing a lot on Twitter etc recently. Argument seems to go: “by linking vaginas/wombs with womanhood, you are reducing women to their genitals, and this is awful.”
Am confused. Because while I as a person am of course more than my genitals, my sexed body is what defines me as a woman. My “womanness” resides entirely in my body and the sex class of that body.
So if I can’t say “my sexed body is what makes me a woman”, then what DOES make me a woman?
My brain isn’t what makes me a woman.
My soul isn’t what makes me a woman.
My hobbies aren’t what makes me a woman.
My tastes in film and TV aren’t what makes me a woman.
My clothes aren’t what makes me a woman.
My ability to apply makeup isn’t what makes me a woman (and is also nonexistent).
So if it’s not my body, what is it? And why is it “exclusionary” of me to say that it’s my body, and not something else that I can’t define and don’t know about?
Anyone managed to have an actual conversation about this where there was an answer to that? I would genuinely like to know.