Yes, womens feelings in these shows are always the result of men's actions.
Mulling it over a bit more where they seem to get it wrong is when they depict male and female violence. They seem to think females should either be weak and suppliant or so angry they are very aggressive. There's no in between. No complexity. Either she is a victim or she's had enough and is kicking ass. But in reality loads of stuff happens in our life that hasn't been controlled by males directly. Loads of interactions.
Also the depiction of children is quite simplistic and formulaic in these shows, as victims etc. I can't bear to watch it add I find it bordering on gratuitous violence against kids and it's bloody weird.