And nor do you in that many women find smears uncomfortable rather than painful, but that isn't what you want to hear is it??
I know that some women find smears only a little uncomfortable.
Of course that is going to be the case. I haven't once suggested that all women find them painful.
You, however, have decided that women who don't have smears are ridiculous because some other women have their vulvas waxed and that is equally painful. When you can't assess other people's pain experiences.
One woman's experience on one external beauty procedure cannot be extrapolated to predict or assume another womans experience of an internal medical procedure on a different but related body part.
It's like trying to compare a scale and polish with a tonsillectomy because they're both accessed by opening the mouth.