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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women failing to attend smear tests

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guardianfree · 22/01/2018 13:34

Women generally but young women in particular - 1 in 3 not attending.

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/jos-cervical-cancer-trust-charity-smear-tests-terminal-illness-health-wellbeing-hospitals-a8171011.html

I know they're unpleasant (and often feel humiliating) but what can we do to reassure women that they can be life savers?

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RogueBiscuit · 23/01/2018 16:04

www.theguardian.com/society/2003/may/22/genderissues.publichealth

In order to save one life from cervical cancer, the research found, 1,000 women would need to be screened for 35 years. Worse, the researchers suggested that testing might do "more harm than good": women born after 1960, they found, have a 40 per cent chance of having a smear test labelled abnormal at some point in their lives

This public debate has really left me feeling yuck. There's the idea that women absolutely must submit to these tests and that women's bodies are public property. I remember being bullied into having a horrible examination and smear test at 16 for no reason. And it's carried on ever since. At antenatal clinic years ago I would have a doctor rummaging around in my vagina at every single visit. Or no pill unless you submitted to an internal. No pain relief in labour unless you submit to an internal. No job in some cases unless you submit to an internal by some dirty old male doctor.

And it's even worse in the US where girls as young as 12 are routinely having gyno exams. I dread to think how many times I've been unnecessary examined like this and I didn't consent to any of it. I'm still alive and my vagina didn't kill me.

What this article shows is that when women say NO it's not respected at all.It's not ok to bully women into intimate examinations. Women don't have to justify why they don't want them. This is about consent, not a very rare cancer.

UpABitLate · 23/01/2018 16:05

Yeah I've had stacks and I'd say about 2 have been absolutely fine and the rest have been uncomfortable, painful, taking a while etc

I also don't like it when they make personal comments about your bits.
One said to me "Oooh your vagina slopes back a lot how does that work with sex then?" and a friend had the women comment on the colour.

Weezol · 23/01/2018 16:06

30 seconds? Have you rtft?

UpABitLate · 23/01/2018 16:08

RogueBiscuit great post.

The fact that normal standard check-ups in USA involve a vaginal rummage in america is just, wow.

I really think that there are some very old very dodgy ideas about women and their bodies and especially about their reproductive / sexual organs that have somehow carried through to modern day, probably because no-one has questioned them. Well I mean lots of women have questioned them, but not men, so it didn't matter.

taskmaster · 23/01/2018 16:09

I urge everyone to get this done it's literally a life saving procedure that takes literally around 30 seconds

30 seconds? Even ignoring the hour it will take me to get to the clinic and the time waiting, plus the hour back again, it still takes at leats 15 minutes just in the room.

Snowdrop18 · 23/01/2018 16:10

Rogue, when I started reading your post, I thought you were going to say you were in the US! Why 16 btw?

UpABitLate · 23/01/2018 16:12

I had smears from 16 as well.

I started having sex at just 16 and went to get contraceptive pills from brook in london (anonymous service). Back then, anyone who was sexually active was supposed to get smears. So they said I should and I said OK.

Melamin · 23/01/2018 16:12

And it's even worse in the US where girls as young as 12 are routinely having gyno exams. I dread to think how many times I've been unnecessary examined like this and I didn't consent to any of it. I'm still alive and my vagina didn't kill me

I have had had 3 unnecessary utterly pointless and useless breast exams (sitting up through clothes and a bra in 2 cases) and one unnecessary internal (quick stick the finger up - yes its a vagina type) so that I could stay on the pill.

I had one thorough exam when I went on the pill, done correctly and explained by a competent doctor. This may not have been necessary but it was considered good practice in 1984. (the year, not the book).

ExConstance · 23/01/2018 16:13

I've found all of them, except for the one I paid a consultant gnae to do, painful. One nurse castigated me for not relaxing and said she didn't know how I managed to have sex if I was like that. The practice nurses at my GP are both off hand and obnoxious, I won't have one again. Personally I find it patronising to be given a mammogram appointment - as if I could move everything to go. They won't remove you from the system unless you sign a disclaimer so after numerous requests and telling them I have no intention of having the screening I now just don't bother to go and telephone them afterwards to tell them why.

Snowdrop18 · 23/01/2018 16:14

well I was sexually active from 17 and on the pill but I had moved out of my parents the first time I was asked so must have been 19. Asking someone to have it immediately they go on contraception seems a bit odd.

RogueBiscuit · 23/01/2018 16:15

Snowdrop I wanted the pill.

UpABitLate · 23/01/2018 16:16

The first one or second one came back CIN2 so I was sent to GUM clinic central london where I had a colp.

I didn't really know what was going on and did as I was told TBH.

Since then they found that is is normal for young girls to have changes and that's I think the reason they increased the age. I smoked as well and so apaprently young + smoker = funny cells but highly unlikely to be cancer.

Anyway so I was on a 1 year recall after that until a few years back when I said look I've been coming every year for 20 years and it's really difficult to organise and do I really need to and they just said no not really and changed it back to a 3 year recall Confused

Fucking ridiculous the whole thing.

Also when I was pg they said that having a colp can give risk of miscarriage but actually most of them were sceptical that this had even happened and 1 said she didn't believe me because it was so young WTF

Most were women so it just goes to show how little even female HCPs trust the word of their female patients.

grannytomine · 23/01/2018 16:16

If you don't tell the truth and lie to women it can be distressing when their experience doesn't match the reality. But don't you think that works both ways, the reality is that some women find it uncomfortable, some women find it painful, some women find it agonising and some women find it easy. Why is it only OK to tell them one side of it, and I mean that for the people who think it is easy for everyone as much as the people who think everyone needs to be scared about it.

Obviously shouting relax at anyone isn't going to work, I did the old NCT classes where it was all about relaxing and breathing and it can make a difference, again maybe doesn't work for everyone but I know if I can get my breathing going and relax it can make some unpleasant procedures more bearable, last year having a colonoscopy was a case in point.

UpABitLate · 23/01/2018 16:18

It must've been the first one mustn't it.

I remember it well as I got the pill in 5th year school (GCSE year) and then had to go for this colp and my boyfriend rather than saying oh no hope you are ok, said could I have caught it, and that really fucked me off.

Ihaveonlyjoinedtodothis · 23/01/2018 16:18

Xenophile -

www.mybodybackproject.com/services-for-women/mbb-clinics/

Massive waiting list but worth the wait.

xx

Snowdrop18 · 23/01/2018 16:22

UpAbitLate "Anyway so I was on a 1 year recall after that until a few years back when I said look I've been coming every year for 20 years and it's really difficult to organise and do I really need to and they just said no not really and changed it back to a 3 year recall"

box ticking exercise. Ridiculous doesn't even begin to cover it.

isn't there something going on at the moment with mammograms picking up alleged "problems" which are actually just "changes" that are totally harmless?

RedToothBrush · 23/01/2018 16:23

You realise telling the true means saying, that women experience a range of possibilities from no pain to lots of pain, don't you?

You said we should just be positive or it will scare poor little women like it scares them with childbirth.

A lot of women just want honesty and acknowledgment that a range of possibilities is possible rather than being spoon fed sugar coated inaccurate crap.

RedToothBrush · 23/01/2018 16:25

Women are things to be processed in healthcare. That's about the sum of it.

Xenophile · 23/01/2018 16:25

Thank you Ihave I really appreciate that info. Sadly, the 700+ mile round trip and my stupid periods make it difficult, but I will try. I am in the middle of intensive C-PTSD therapy, which will also hopefully help.

TheSmallClangerWhistlesAgain · 23/01/2018 16:31

I'm a long-term smear refuser. I've tried in the past, but it doesn't work.

I cannot even have sex lying on my back with my legs bent, and that's when I am aroused. It's nothing to do with "relaxing", it's physiological and violating that causes me great pain and distress.

I've had other types of internal exam that were easier. A swab for a vaginal infection that I could self-administer and was the width of a cotton bud - that was very simple and painless. No being violated with metal objects, no lying on my back while a medic pushes and scrapes away at my genitals.

RoseAndRose · 23/01/2018 16:33

"they just said no not really and changed it back to a 3 year recall"

I'm not surprised it they were a bit non-plussed. Staying on annual recall should expire - it used to be 3 years normal after CIN1 (wait and watch, as those are the changes which are often self-correcting. Not sure how long they go for CIN2 - prob the same

MiaowTheCat · 23/01/2018 16:36

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grannytomine · 23/01/2018 16:38

there's a general taboo around the refusal to have screening of all kinds because we're not allowed to say "hey, I've got to die of something" anymore. I am absolutely terrified of long life. My family has a huge problem with longevity before any of this medical intervention even happened - many relatives living to 90 when 70 was considered amazing. Maybe that explains different attitudes, in my family some of the men are long lived, plenty of the women died in their 40s of breast/ovarian cancer. Some of my cousins were children when their mothers died and some just babies. Nothing to do with smears, ovarian cancer is much harder to screen for. I think our experiences will colour how we look at the benefits and risks.

For women in general the risk of breast cancer is estimated at about 12%, if you have the BRCA1 gene it is somewhere between 70 and 90%. Ovarian is under 2% for general population but about 40% with BRCA1and the risk starts earlier. Very different if you are comparing risk v benefits.

Offering BRCA screening to all women has been suggested recently but I imagine the cost will mean it won't happen. I know for me to have the tests privately would cost £1,300 and they know what to look for with me. I assume if you are looking for 1 and 2 and no guildance on which mutation it would cost more.

grannytomine · 23/01/2018 16:41

You realise telling the true means saying, that women experience a range of possibilities from no pain to lots of pain, don't you? If that was to me then yes I have said that. I don't think we should assume everyone will find it painless any more than we should assume everyone will find it painful.

NiceViper · 23/01/2018 16:43

"In order to save one life from cervical cancer, the research found, 1000 women would need to be screened for 35 years. Worse, the researchers suggested that testing might do "more harm than good": women born after 1960, they found, have a 40 per cent chance of having a smear test labelled abnormal at some point in their lives"

a) 35 years is the standard time for screening in UK., from 25 to about 60. So they are saving one in one thousand women who follow the normal schedule I've run their lifetime. Sounds a bit different put that way, doesn't it?
b) when they say 'labelled abnormal' what did they mean? All CIN? If so, what proportion of those were CIN1 and had no intervention other than a time in enhanced recall?

There seems to be a fair amount of confusion about what the test results can mean. Perhaps more education on this, and how CIN1 does not need treatment, is a step that could usefully be taken. I think it's a good thing in itself to have more and clearer information readily available for medical matters and NHS protocols.