I meant that in the case of transmen, it wouldn't be outing for them to buy tampons/pads etc. as this is something that men do.
I'm not even sure how much modern transmen care about being outed.
They seem, by now, deluded enough to think that passing doesn't matter.
I mean, if I was trans, I'd oppose all this "men menstruate, too!" nonsense. I'd feel that it raises my risk to be outed enormously. If people think that trans are a tiny minority and they'll probably never meet one, then they don't look twice at a man who buys pads or tampons.
But now that it is all over the newspapers? Well ..
The whole bathroom debate has caused me to look twice at tall women entering the changing rooms. Previously, I'd never have questioned that a person who walks into the women's changing room must be female; only the most blatant male looks and/or behaviour would have caused me to look at someone twice.
It is likely the same with transmen. Hell, men will now know that even someone who has a full beard isn't necessarily actually male.
If I were trans, I'd hate the genderists with a passion.
The strategy of pretending to be male to survive in patriarchy only works if no one notices because no one expects it.
I am very aware that men don't care what my gender identity is. They treat me as woman because they can see I am one, and they'd only ever stop doing so if they genuinely thought I were a true, XY chromosome, bepenised dude.
This whole "men menstruate! men get pregnant! men need abortions" serves no purpose - no gynecologist would have refused a patient just because said patient happens to have masculine genderfeelz. The only thing it does is draw attention.
If I had sacrificed my female reproductive organs for the sake of not being treated as subhuman in patriarchy, I'd be so very massively pissed off at people who draw attention to the fact that my bearded self could have a vagina, thus ruining all my precautions taken to escape rape culture.