I try to take comfort in the fact that it is always like this in feminism. There are always going to be people who tell you that you're a man-hater, that you need to pipe down, that you're being hysterical, that the thing you think is a problem isn't a problem, that you're over-thinking, that it's not normal to think as you think. Take heart. None of that means you're wrong.
Actually, males and their handmaidens hating you is a good sign that you are doing feminism right.
The more resistance you encounter, the more likely what you are trying to achieve will help women.
The support the whole trans nonsense gets from males is a very obvious sign that it is not feminist, and it will NOT benefit the female half of the population in any way.
(Not saying that men aren't theoretically able to develop compassion and empathy for women and see that patriarchy is wrong, but if men stop opposing you, always look if they are opposing someone else instead, and if perhaps that person might be doing feminism in a way more likely to succeed.)