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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Paris Lees article re: Ldn underground

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Ekphrasis · 14/07/2017 20:03

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/jul/14/tfl-scrapping-ladies-and-gentlemen-gender-public-toilets?CMP=fb_gu

I'm exhausted and read half asleep - can't make head nor tale if this article.

Confused sex with gender?

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Ekphrasis · 14/07/2017 20:05

Some of it I agree with, other parts really don't make sense in terms of how I see the real world working.

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BasketOfDeplorables · 14/07/2017 21:10

I don't this is coherent - choosing a gender isn't 'doing away' with gender.

I really hate this idea that gender is a spectrum. A spectrum would have the extremes of feminine and masculine at either end - where do we place stuff on this spectrum? Is lipstick more feminine than sewing? Are we going to separate kilts worn by men and kilts worn by women to different ends? Where is gardening?

Is it a points based system? Does shifting furniture in a dress even things out to the same as owning a Labrador?

enoughisenough12 · 14/07/2017 22:01

I know that the Guardian comments are normally vile but some of the ones under this article are really funny Grin

Datun · 14/07/2017 23:39

Thankfully, the transgender movement and rise of intersectional feminism is making real progress in moving towards a more gender-neutral society. It’s headline news every day.

Well Lees has got that wrong for a start. Transgenderism underpins sex role stereotypes like there's no tomorrow.

What else is a woman's brain in a man's body?

Terfing · 15/07/2017 00:24

I have no idea what that article was about?

Is Lees saying that there's no such thing as gender now?

BasketOfDeplorables · 15/07/2017 00:45

I think the most that can be said in its favour is some people don't feel included by ladies and gentlemen, so wh

BasketOfDeplorables · 15/07/2017 00:47

... so why not just say hello everybody?

It's barely a tweet, let alone an article. If it was funny, then fine, but it's just a bit waffling.

FeckinCrutches · 15/07/2017 00:54

Paris Lee is a massive bellend. I think that may clear things up.

NoLoveofMine · 15/07/2017 01:01

He's a fucking idiot.

NoLoveofMine · 15/07/2017 01:01

I was called transphobic for saying this tonight..............by a boy Grin

MorrisZapp · 15/07/2017 01:07

Love the comments, heartening to see gender critical views allowed to stand.

Lees is surely taking the piss. 44% recognise that gender is a spectrum? My arse they do. I'd love to see the questions and interviewees that provided that stat.

NoLoveofMine · 15/07/2017 01:10

Absolute nonsense. If you're a woman you're a woman. If you're a boy you're a boy. Biology is biology.

Datun · 15/07/2017 07:08

The commenters aren't having any of it.

Idly wondering whether a non binary person can get pregnant and making dirty remarks about each other's gender fluid.

Then praising Lees for their accurate reporting of "While it’s easy to automatically dismiss this sort of thing as frivolous nonsense..."

Brilliant.

I suspect Lees was automatically asked to write an article about gender neutrality, despite not understanding that Lees is probably vehemently opposed to it, as it does not fit the trans-narrative.

Hence a load of unintelligible bollocks.

Ekphrasis · 15/07/2017 07:35

Not just me then Grin

I could pick the whole thing apart but have better things to do!

I do think the comment that going non binary helps violence against women is naive and damaging - and an oxymoron.

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Datun · 15/07/2017 07:42

Course it is. This is all about how other people treat you, based on your own feelings.

I admit, if you actually can't tell if someone is male or female, then you might have a point. But only up to a point. Women will still need to access reproductive health and all the rights that go with that.

Unless people everywhere are able to completely disguise their sex, having an inner feeling that they are neither male or female won't make the smallest difference to their lives if they're basing it on how others treat them.

BasketOfDeplorables · 15/07/2017 07:53

Appearing androgynous is simply not achieveable for me. I have had very short hair, and dressed in jeans and t shirts for a manual job, but being 5'1" with large breasts I will never be mistaken for a man.

This was also the time I experienced the most street harassment, as I often travelled home from work late at night. Being alone and out while men are drunk are much more important risk factors for harassment and violence than appearance in my experience.

WhattheChuff · 15/07/2017 08:15

What a muddled load of horseshit.

First "Gender is dead, kaput" then its "on a spectrum" that in the first few lines. Make up your mind, dear.

That "newspaper" cant really be serious publishing incoherent, rambling nonsense articles like this.

Luckily the comments are overwhelming calling BS on it.

OlennasWimple · 15/07/2017 08:54

I used to think that PL could at least write, even if I disagreed with what was being written. But this is just unintelligible bollocks!

Fortunately most of the commentators agree

Ekphrasis · 15/07/2017 09:01

I saw this on fb; interestingly the comments are less intelligent initially and clearly caught up in the non binary movement.

I'm impressed with the guardian comments. Thank god.

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Ekphrasis · 15/07/2017 09:02

*correcting my OP to head nor tail.

But it's a tall tale really.

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Ekphrasis · 15/07/2017 09:09

(Well, most of the guardian comments.)

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Datun · 15/07/2017 09:14

I suspect there are, aside from the obvious, some innate differences between men and women, but society exaggerates these differences through strict roles and rules to the point of caricature – to the detriment of women and sexual minorities in particular but, ultimately, oppressing everyone.

Sneaky, sneaky. Tch.

Society does not exaggerate biological differences. It assigns a role to those differences. Gender.

What is this article is trying to do is to eliminate biological differences, by agreeing that gender is superficial.

We see you.

shinynewusername · 15/07/2017 09:22

The comments are hilarious. No one buys this crap.

OlennasWimple · 15/07/2017 09:24

As an aside, why did the article need to be illustrated with a picture where you can clearly see through the top of the woman at the front of the carriage? I'm pretty certain it's only see through because of the flash on the camera, not because she chose to dress that way.

Datun · 15/07/2017 09:33

"Perhaps TfL could compromise and start their announcements with Ladies , Gentlemen and Narcissists?"

I think they've nailed it there.

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