Okay well there's a thought. Maybe feminists had to the push the line that there is no difference other than anatomy between men and women in order to get a place at the table.
Maybe there is a difference. Not just a conditioned one?
Or, more of a difference than we think? Although, for the life of me, I certainly don't think that women are inherently programmed to do the wife work.
Male violence does seem to be biological. The territorial pissing contests. 'Owning' women. Although, again, the 'women are property' aspect seems to me to be more about a sexual partner, rather than a mother to their children.
I can't remember where I read it, but one of the characteristics of testosterone was to make the person more egocentric.
I certainly see this single-mindedness employed in the pursuit of sex.
And, as a previous poster said, it's interesting where priorities lie in terms of spending money.
DH and I very rarely argue about money. But if we do, it's because he wants to spend it on either something for himself or for us both, whereas I want to spend it on the kids. I see spending money on my children as an investment in them. Irrespective of whether it's a pizza, or an education.