My point about the developing blastocyst is referring the maternal-to-zygotic transition:
"In animals, maternal factors contributed by the egg cytoplasm initially control development, while the zygotic nuclear genome is quiescent. Subsequently, the genome is activated, embryonic gene products are mobilized and maternal factors are cleared:
Lee, Miler T., Ashley R. Bonneau, and Antonio J. Giraldez. “Zygotic Genome Activation during the Maternal-to-Zygotic Transition.” Annual review of cell and developmental biology 30 (2014): 581–613.
Even so, re your paternal X chromosome comment, both XX are not read together otherwise we'd be in a lot of trouble over double the amount of expressed genes (dead). At 32 cells (i think - I'm not a geneticist but accred. biomed sci), X inactivation happens, so there in every cell a different X is turned off. The textbook example to understand it is calico cats, which are only ever female as the different patches of coloured fur are developed from a different X being turned on.
Also massive tangent.