It's a very patriarchal society. It's strange how we see Germany as progressive but in terms of being a career woman with a strong voice - well it's not looked on well.
Family values are promoted by conservative Germans and while women are supported well financially to remain at home to care for the family, it's more of an expectation than a choice.
I work on the border in Switzerland and we are integrated with a lot of German companies. Very few women on the boards unless in HR capacity.
I had a new contact to work from our Hamburg office, a very traditional German male manager (but the same age as me). He's caused an absolute shit storm here.
Told one French colleague that because she works from home 3 days a week and is pregnant again that she should forget her career and just do a basic job because she's of no real use to him in the team. Makes her address him in the formal manner, ugh it's just awful.
He doesn't manage me, but tried in the same way (I'm a single mother working a 45 hour week). I cut him dead and reported his behaviour. I will not tolerate it. He's gunning for me now and in his mind I think it adds to the troublesome issue of women in the workplace. 
Socially - schools finish at midday, children are in the whole expected to come home for lunch, in towns and rural areas there are few opportunities for wrap around care outside the home.
Your mail still comes addressed to the man of the house.
The policies and acceptance on legal sex workers and prostitution also say a lot to me.
And most are aware that rape laws are only now being reviewed
https://www.google.ch/amp/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/36726095
Merkel to me, is about as feminist as Thatcher.
Here's an interesting view from the expat site that I read a few months ago....
http://www.expatica.com/de