I was having this "discussion" with my DBro (he's one of those "I don't see gender" types) as one or two awards have taken down their male / female categories and we were talking about the possibility of the Oscars doing the same.
His argument was that it would then be a level playing field and the best person would win.
My argument was that it's not yet a level playing field because there are more roles for men and actresses get paid less anyway.
To which he replied that maybe women aren't as interesting.
At which point I eye-rolled to leave the conversation whilst he proceeded to say he doesn't see gender and judges everyone on their merits.
I'm crap at arguing and need your advice if it comes up again as it surely will.
Sometimes though I feel like it's the attitude that bugs me. This gleeful "see you wanted equality but you can't handle it" attitude.
Do people not want diversity and inclusion for everyone in public life or is it all a big competition?
Sorry for rant 