We seem to be slightly at cross purposes, girl. I picked up on Sommers' claim that the pay gap was a myth because in my experience it isn't - my employer has done an internal audit, by job class, and shown that it's very much in place in my workplace. A few years back there was a study of all the universities in the UK showing women were paid less than men, not simply because there were more male professors, but actually paid differently at each grade up the pay scale (lecturer A, lecturer B, senior lecturer, reader, professor). Yet people like Sommers keep coming along and saying "the pay gap is a myth" and claiming it's down to women choosing to do less well paid jobs (ignoring the fact that there's an interesting question in and of itself as to why the "traditionally female" jobs like nursing, librarianship, teaching, etc, are paid less than "traditionally male" ones requiring similar levels of skill and training - to go back to Dagenham in the 1970s, why was spraying paint on a car seen as more skilled work than machining the seat covers?)
The rape/sexual assault statistics - again, an interesting one. I'm inclined to put more faith in the 1 in 4 statistic simply because you can arrive at it via two independent methodologies. Either ask women directly. Or do as David Lisak (American criminal psychologist) does, and ask men. He finds that when given anonymous questionnaires, approximately 6% of men on American campuses will admit to behaviours which meet the legal definition of rape, with an average of 6 rapes each to their names. So (allowing for the fact that some women are unlucky enough to be raped more than once), 1 in 4 women as victims of that roughly 1 in 20 men's repeat offending sounds about right to me.
I think our misunderstanding arose because I was wondering why Pink hadn't addressed the substantive comments I made about Sommers' article, choosing only to home in on the "women need to be nicer" (which I'll agree was a bit flippant - but it is tiresome continually to be told that you need to be nice - does this get said to other civil rights movements?)