As we are all exposed to the same societal pressures I wonder what the difference is between, for example, those of us on this board who say "sod that for a game of soldiers" when it comes to misogyny and those who buy into the whole schtick.
I think self-belief and expectations have a lot to do with it. Growing up, for example (child in the 70s) I was subjected to a lot of forced femininity (e.g. my mother insisted on buying me dresses and giving me dolls and telling me that certain behaviours "are not ladylike."). However, I was also allowed access to traditionally male toys/activities and 100% encouraged to believe that I could do any job as good as any man. My education was considered of vital importance and it was expected of me that I would become self supporting.
While I hated the forced femininity, I think it did allow me to grow up feeling that 'female' was just as good as 'male', whereas much of society has fallen into the trap of considering traditionally female activities as somehow lesser or frivolous (e.g. ridiculing men who like knitting).
i did buy into some misogyny/victim-blaming ideals though, and it wasn't until I started to learn more about feminism that I made a conscious effort to see that for what it was and to avoid perpetuating it myself.
Personally, I think feminism should be a compulsory part of the school curriculum, taught as part of a wider focus on politics and sociology.