Forgive me for starting another thread on rape, but this is tangential to the current one.
I've heard a few times the idea that rape used to be a crime of property - ie rape was crime against the man who "owned" the woman, rather than against the woman herself.
I never really delved into that idea before, until today.
Why would a misogynistic society that gives women few or no rights even care about rape? Why would it even be a crime? Well it wouldn't be, of course, except when it impinges on real people, ie men. Thus we had a situation where rape was a crime of property, ie by raping a woman you were "stealing" her from another man and so had defaced his property. Hence, the situation where a man couldn't rape his own wife - you can't steal your own property.
So far, so awful.
Things have changed, but has the underlying attitude got any better? Is the idea of property still underlying society's perceptions of rape? Is that why society, and men in particular, seem to struggle so much with the idea that women are autonomous beings who should have the right to stop sex at any time any place anywhere for any reason?