ok, you have some odd scraps and tatters of anecdotal evidence, but what is being promoted here is a lot more cohesive and most importantly convincing as an argument.
Modern "feminism" is having an identity crisis, mainly caused by the so called snowflake generation, and I think you will find that it what is taking most of the flak from these haters. granted, there will be some that take offence to all forms of feminism, and that is most definitely wrong.
One can draw parallels to BLM and other "social justice" movements, who were both too concerned with their own agenda to realise the big picture, and refused to clean up their own community and stop harbouring/defending criminals.