my uncle is a cunt

[feelinlucky]

It's the only word to describe him. I've been staying at his house on holiday for three week
s and the way he treats his wife leaves me foaming at the mouth. Oh my dear God!!! I just need to keep my mouth shut for one more night. Although I did have an argument with him tonight and told him he is an abusive Neanderthal. He may not speak to me tomorrow. He frighten me and his wife won't leave him. Its a long story and I just had to offload. Thanks for reading.

So why use his house for your 3 week holiday?

Does his wife know that you know and would she approach you for help and support if she felt she needed it?

That's probably about all you can do for her, but I'm sure others will be along with better advice.

Worra, 'using his house'? I was invited and not 'using'! And, during the three weeks I have just found out first hand how he treats his wife. I hope that answers your question.

The girl, yes, she was in tears last night telling me she is miserable but loves him. I'm going to sleep now. I've told his wife
I'm always there for her. She's not british and very isolated in the UK. I hope she comes to me if she needs to.

Well its a start that she has confided in you at least. You've undoubtedly helped her already.

Remain a constant support and whatever you do, don't 'fall out' with uncle cuntychops which he might try to engineer know he knows you know what he's like iyswim.

I'm a bit confused. Is it his wife ir the girl who is nor British and isolated? Do you mean a DD? Another family mamner? Or an illegal and underage maid? What girl?

Do you consider there is a child protection issue here? If so, you need to contact the authorities straight away.

meditrina I am the girl...

The uncle's DW is however, not british and also possibly a bit isolated whilst living here with uncle cunty chops.

Well, that's what I'm reading

Is there anything you can do to intervene?? I wonder why you didn't hear about your abusive uncle before, and have only just discovered it by living with them? Has your family just ignored it??

Hi, sorry, don't know where girl came from. They've been together about 15 years and spent most of it abroad. I don't see them much and I've always known he is quite an aggressive man but thought he had softened. I've been shocked by the open abusive behaviour. Shocked that her children who are grown up just accept. There's nothing I can do about it but I will be there for her if she needs me. I find it really sad.

It's in the form of bullying, belittling, aggressiveness, not even allowing her to sleep because he can't. She says he doesn't hit her but I saw him push her when she didn't get out of the car quick enough!