I wrote this today on my fb page as a bit of a rant.
it is just my general perception and i'm interested to know what you all think? Feel free to ignore, if you want.
It is a bit long!
Imagine this, we still have slaves. Black slaves with white owners. Imagine there is a group within this society who want to abolish slavery. They campaign etc, but are met with the very closed notion, that slavery is as old as time and we will never be able to abolish it, because there will always be white people who want a slave, and black people who are willing to be a slave. Or people who argue, 'How will the black people feed their children'?
Imagine the government as made it illegal to be a slave and illegal to buy slaves. Then imagine a slave advertising in the back of newspapers, telephone boxes for slave services. Imagine then, the slave being arrested on numerous occasions and getting a criminal record and a fine, and being once again forced back to advertise their slavery services, as now they could never get a regular job and they need some way to pay the fine.
Eventually the notion of criminalising the black slaves is considered harmful and futile, so they are de criminalised. The white buyers of black slaves however are still prosecuted if they are caught. Now imagine the black slaves begin setting up unions and campaigning for the white buyers to be de criminalised, because they believe themselves to be making a 'free' choice, they will be safer because they can work in groups and perhaps stop some of the violence and abuse that some of the white buyers dish out. Imagine, that the black slaves argument is that it will increase demand and make them more money and more importantly that demand will be from the more (hollow laugh) respectful members of the white buyers, as they wouldn't buy the services of the black slaves when there was a risk of a criminal record.
Then imagine that a quite respected, powerful organisation for human rights, decides to look into the issue. They draft a document that proposes that it is an 'imperfect setting' but it is the white man's right to be able to buy a 'consenting' black person.
No?
It's hard to imagine any of that. It seems ludicrous on soooo many levels.
I understand that there are differences between female prostitutes and black slaves, not least as one is completed owned and the other is only 'owned' for an hour.
I'm quite sure someone can come along and dissect this down, to show the differences between the two, how one is/was extremely more oppressed etc, and I would accept that. It was as far as I know, all black people who were treated this way, whereas female prostitutes are not even the majority within the female population.
However I do feel I could plausibly counter argue that with the overall perception of women is not great and certainly not equal within quite a considerable section of the male population. You don't even need to take my word for it. The World Health organisation has called the threat to women and children as endemic.
The general misogyny is every where. Spend 20 mins looking at www.everydaysexism, or www.theinvisblemenproject and see the ingrained, sometimes even unconscious sexism out there. Even Beyonce has apparently argued that equality is bullshit, ironically unaware that she herself contributes to that inequality. (Hint Beyonce; Jay Z doesn't flash his flesh, his talent is enough)
But in my opinion these aren't the differences that we should be focusing on.
I'm more interested to know why black people fought against their predicament, why they believed themselves to be (quite rightly) deserving of being equal? Why do women not believe they are worthy of being equal? Why are they so excepting of the situation and moreover, actually fighting for better conditions within that situation? And the most ludicrous of all, why the hell have a leading human rights organisation decided that these women are right?
I don't want women who are faced with this 'choice' to be penalised, or hurt in any way. I wish for it to not be the situation at all for any of them. But in a world where the power dynamics between men and women are no where near equal, I refuse to accept that this is an inevitable, acceptable situation and is in fact a 'right' for men.
Are there going to be classes in school where our children are told that men have a 'right' to buy women?
WTAF?
It's so god damn scary and unbelievable. I would imagine all the dead feminists are turning in their graves and all the alive ones are quite rightly up in arms.
And as usual this is a war between the women, whilst the men who are supportive of this patriarchal society are probably sitting back, rubbing their hands in glee and watching the bum fight with a beer.