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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I won a small victory today!

47 replies

HowGoodIsThat · 08/01/2014 18:55

Before Christmas I spotted gendered sticker books for sale in our local library - titled "Girls Sticker Book" and "Boys Sticker Book" - so I complained. My emails cited the Let Toys Be Toys campaign.

After several exchanges of patronising emails telling me that " judgement about controversial material is often subjective and in this case we would not withdrawn this material as it does not breach our censorship policy" I managed to point out that I am not asking them to censor their lending stock - just not sell these stupid sticker books.

Today I got an email from the Resourcing Manager to say that they have had a lot of debate and agreed that there is sufficient non-gendered stock available for them to purchase from and that they won't buy these ones again.

Its the first time I have ever complained about something like this - and I will now do it more often.

Hurrah! Onwards!

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honeybeeridiculous · 08/01/2014 19:14
Biscuit
UptoapointLordCopper · 08/01/2014 19:16

Well done! Smile

FWIW I emailed Usborne about their gendered doodling books (WTF). Did I get a reply? Hah! Angry Perhaps it's time for another email.

HowGoodIsThat · 08/01/2014 19:42

honey I am going to take it that the Biscuit was offered in a spirit of nurturing me for the good fight.

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HowGoodIsThat · 08/01/2014 19:43
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PortofinoRevisited · 08/01/2014 19:44

Well done! Flowers

Bowlersarm · 08/01/2014 19:45

So you got something banned? Great.

VashtaNerada · 08/01/2014 19:49

Well done! Hate that stupid sexist shite.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 08/01/2014 19:54

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AnyFucker · 08/01/2014 19:55

< fist pump >

LineRunner · 08/01/2014 19:56

Not banned. Just not being purchased with limited public library money.

TravellingToad · 08/01/2014 19:56

Great! One more sexist piece of shite that now wont be offered at least in one location :) Keep it up OP!

And to the sarky arseholes... "Do fuck off"

BeerTricksPotter · 08/01/2014 19:56

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SinisterSal · 08/01/2014 19:57

great Grin

MostlyCake · 08/01/2014 19:58

Well done! I'll check my library next time I'm in!

BeerTricksPotter · 08/01/2014 19:59

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ErrolTheDragon · 08/01/2014 20:00

'there is sufficient non-gendered stock available for them to purchase from and that they won't buy these ones again.'

Excellent! well done.

KaseyM · 08/01/2014 20:30

Way to go!

TheDoctrineOf2014 · 08/01/2014 21:07

It's not banned, it's just stocj selection!

PenguinsDontEatKale · 08/01/2014 21:11

Well done!

This stuff matters. When my DD1 sees a whole pile of things she likes in a book labelled 'for boys' a little bit of her individuality gets stamped on. Children should choose things based on interests, not artificial division. I don't care if 90% of the car sticker books are sold to boys, but I care that they are labelled as boys things for the 10% who are girls (and vice versa).

SplitHeadGirl · 08/01/2014 21:19

OP that is so great!!! You are wicked! I wish I had your get up and go...all I do is moan to my DH and mum but any chance of confrontation and I turn to stone!! Well done and fight the good fight!

LetToysbeToys · 08/01/2014 21:25

This is great to hear, well done! The more of us who complain about these things, the better. And thanks for mentioning us in your complaint! Thanks

NiceTabard · 08/01/2014 21:31

Nice one Smile

to the naysayers.

CaptChaos · 09/01/2014 05:24

Well done!

And to the naysayers.... ODFOD.

YoniMatopoeia · 09/01/2014 05:31

Well done OP.

lackingideas · 09/01/2014 06:15

good work!

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