I made a statement to the police last year about an ex partner who was very sexually abusive. I had reasons why i did not want an investigation to take place. However I did want to, if possible, make a statement that could be useful to someone else if he treated them in a similar way and they reported him to the police.
I read something somewhere that gave me the impression it was possible to do this, it may have been on MN.
I managed to do what I wanted, I made a statement to be used as police intelligence, rather than making an allegation which would have had to be investigated.
But it wasn't straightforward to do this, and I am wondering why not.
Wouldn't lots more women come forward to report rape if it was more widely known that you could do this? Is that the problem, that too many women would make statements?
Or is the problem more that this would seem unfair on the men who had statements made against them, as the police intelligence would be held about them and they would be unaware and unable to defend themselves?
Or is it that the police have to focus on investigating rape allegations, and don't want to just be collecting intelligence?