Ahh, Glosswitch is on the case.
In her blog post [['No, actually, I won't be ''even handed'' when it comes to debating abortion rights'
She writes
Harking back to Bill Clinton?s ?safe, legal and rare? ideal, there are a whole host of pro-choicers who are more than happy to reveal their moral qualms, as though this somehow backs up, rather than undermines, their case. 'I?m pro-choice but I?m not happy about being pro-choice.' This always strikes me as disrespectful to the women whose choices we seek to defend. We have chosen to put their bodily integrity first. Let?s do it properly, bravely and honestly, with faith in these individuals and their decisions, and not with sad, disapproving eyes. Our abstract regret betrays, not some hidden ?truth? about life, but an ongoing expectation that these women should be giving more than anyone has ever had the right to ask of them.
I love this. This is how I feel. This isn't about wrangling over if a foetus is a person or how bad we personally feel about the idea of `12,20 or 24 weeks - do we say to women "actually, this isn't your decision, you can be forced to be pregnant and give birth against your will" - or do we say "I trust you. It's your body. You own it and get to decide what happens to it" ?
When it boils down to it, I trust women. And that's why I am happy to be pro-choice. And so, from now on I'm going to push back a lot harder in conversations about this. It's not my right to force women to be pregnant and give birth against their will. It's not anyone's right.