There's been plenty in the media about rape recently, in connection with Assange, Todd Akin, George Galloway etc. It made me think.
I've been raped on several different occasions by different guys. It took me almost a decade to realise and call it that. I don't think the guys who did it thought of it as rape. It makes me angry now and I'm thinking way too much about it. In a way, the realisation it was rape made things worse for me.
There's nothing I could do about it now. So much time has passed, I couldn't reasonably report it now, nor would I want to - it'd be impossible to persecute anyway - can't even remember the exact date. It was no stranger in the alleyway, but friends, and in one case ( the one which makes me the most angry) my then partner.
I feel I should just let it go, and just try my best to make sure my daughters don't accept the unacceptable, when the situation arises.
But I can't really switch off now that the discussion is everywhere. I'm not even really sure what my question is. But surely I can't be the only one who feels that way. So how do others deal with it?
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So what to do with that pointless rage?
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WidowWadman · 27/08/2012 20:37
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