Thanks for coming back to me Nyas, KRITIQ and victoria.
victoria I'm not annoyed at the spin on the story by Sky. I expect it. I've done the same under orders by news editors.
What annoys me is that the NSPCC's press office appears not to anticipated it by specifically addressing the complexity of abuse suffered by teenage girls and dropping the under-11s for a while.
That is not by design but is their fault.
Some of these people will be former journalists. Or at least they should be. Maybe that's the problem. Maybe the office is staffed by people who don't understand how newsrooms work but know how they'd like them to work.
They could also have taken the stance of refusing to co-operate unless Sky, for instance, specifically talked about this issue. Maybe Jon Brown did talk about that and it was cut. What a press officer should have said is: 'No. We're talking only about this or we don't talk at all. These are our case histories. We'll do little kids next time but right now, this is our priority.'
KRITIQ it's shorter for me to say we agree in principle because I think we do. My issue here is one of professionalism by the NSPCC press office. I wonder what they think they get paid for and I wonder what they are advising senior policy staff about the media and 'disappointing' outcomes.
It's true I found Standing On My Own Two Feet a turn-off. That should be anticipated and something more accessible should be produced in tandem for reporters.
Anyway, your mention of Southall Black Sisters is really interesting. I agree that they worked with opinon-formers in parliament, local authorities and the police to influence policy change.
But they didn't neglect the press. I worked in Redbridge, Newham and Tower Hamlets and they were assiduous in cultivating friendly contacts with us and helping on the cultural aspects of stories that as a white girl from an all-white, lower-middle class background I had no idea of.
One story I remember would have got reported as a bizarre and titillating murder if not for them. A young Asian woman was found in the street in Forest Gate with ultimately fatal chemical burns in the mid-80s.
The police knew her husband had done it but were unable to give more insight. They weren't that bothered beyond clearing up a murder.
Someone from SBS explained to me the concept of 'honour killings'. I had no idea this went on. Why would I? They didn't judge. They just explained.
At the trial it transpired the woman had been taken to the workshop of a family friend and pushed alive into a barrel of sulphuric acid. The intention was to torture her as well as killing her. If they'd have pushed the lid down properly they'd have probably been able to dispose of what remained of her.
SBS's guidance resulted in a much more knowledgeable crime report. I'm not saying I'm a hero. I'm not saying the paper made much more of it after. But SBS patiently spoon-fed me because they knew I didn't understand but realised that I did care and that helping me understand might pay off in time. They must have replicated this hundreds of times because nearly 30 years on everyone knows what 'honour killings' are and we've started to do something about them.
A similar thing happened with a social worker who explained one idea behind gay adoptions - placing a girl who'd been abused by men with a single woman or a female couple to protect everyone involved.
Undoubtedly you know what I'm talking about but I didn't then and most people don't now. But if you take the time to explain it to one receptive person they will go on about it every time someone comes out with the vile Littlejohn line. Because I do.
That's all I ask of press offices.
Thanks for reading.