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Domestic Violence Relief Services Cuts.

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StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 12:36

A friend of mine is petitioning the government, asking them to refrain from making further funding cuts to domestic violence resources, such as Women's Aid, Respect, and the refuge services. Details of how services have been affected can be found here

Could I please ask you all to sign this petition, please? epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/28979 And if anyone would be willing to share the petition, please, that would be great!

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StewieGriffinsMom · 12/02/2012 14:18

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PacificDogwood · 12/02/2012 19:06

What happened to the other thread Confused?

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 19:23

Mumsnet deleted it. Apparently, there's nowhere on the site for petitions.

Hmm

Signed enough petitions through this site during my time here, under various guises to know that's not completely true.

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Jellykat · 12/02/2012 19:32

Done
There's this one too, they've got a way to go..

www.mumsnet.Com/Talk/Politics/1404126-Speak-Up-Save-A-Life-Petition-against-domestic-abuse

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 19:37

Thanks for the heads up, JellyKat. :)

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PacificDogwood · 12/02/2012 20:57

Oh. Goodness. Really?!

Ooops, I bumped it Blush

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 21:13

Hmmm, apparently, not an issue if the thread allows for discussion...

Which would have turned thread into an MRA's free for all. (been here long enough to see that happen)

Just seems such a pedantic rule.

Anyway, less discussion of the rules, before I earn myself a ban or something.

Why on earth does the government see cutting funding to these resources as acceptable? I don't get it. :( They see the stats, they know two women are killed each week by former or current partners. Are they TRYING to increase that number? Because that's what's going to happen. :(

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PacificDogwood · 12/02/2012 21:16

They are cutting everything AngrySad.
I see it every day and it makes me grow a stomach ulcer with powerless rage... so not good for general serenity.

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 21:25

But the thing is, none of these cuts benefit society, or the economy. None of them.

In fact, the reverse will happen.

the bigger the rich/poor divide gets, the poorer our country will get, in the bigger scheme of things. :( We can't afford that.

Thought we were all in this together, Dave.

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AThingInYourLife · 12/02/2012 21:33

We also can't afford what it will cost to put women and children back together if they can't get support when they need it and are in a position to access it.

It had taken decades to build up the current infrastructure, and it was done on a shoestring as it was, using masses of goodwill and commitment from volunteers.

These cuts will damage something very valuable and efficient.

It's so, so sad and infuriating.

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 21:42

I did find myself wondering recently if we'd find ourself going the way of the US state which recently tried de-criminalising domestic abuse in order to save money. It's something I could almost see Cameron's Cronies trying... Hmm

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AThingInYourLife · 12/02/2012 21:49

Which state was that? Shock

You could argue that it's barely criminal as things stand [cynical], but that's too glib.

It feels like an important line has been crossed when refuges are now having to turn women away. It always felt before that even though things were really tight, when a woman really needed help something would be done, somehow, to make it happen.

It is scary to live in a country where that is no longer the case.

Jellykat · 12/02/2012 22:00

Ooh i've never been in this topic before (even tho' i was a subscriber to 'Spare Rib' many years ago) i thought it was s'posed to be a scarey place, but it doesn't look too bad in here..

I discussed the cuts last summer at my WA meeting, apparently the cuts hadn't affected the Welsh WA groups, as the Welsh Assembly (Labour led) were still allocating the same amount of funds, i pray it's the same this year.

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 22:15

It was Topeka, Kansas. Seems it has actually been decriminalized Fuming is no longer the appropriate word.

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StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 22:22

Welcome to FWR, JellyKat. We don't bite too often. :)

I'm contemplating approaching our local MP (unfortunately Tory) about the issue. Generally, he's a little more left wing in his ideologies, from what I've gathered, so HOPEFULLY, can get him onside with this.

It's just a great big kick in the teeth. I remember telling people before the election that the Tories cared only for upper class men... I've been proven right, I suspect.

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Jellykat · 12/02/2012 22:31

Awww Thank you Smile
I just don't understand why people aren't kicking off, i suspect it's because the cuts are all coming like a Tidal wave, we're too overwhelmed about which to protest about.. It's all absolutely doing my head in!

I remember when Thatcher was in, people were angrier, what's going on?

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 22:35

I'm not sure. :( Have we just been eroded by the way things have gone? or is it going to take something spectacular. I'm trying to think of a phenomenal (but legal) way to get the message across to the government, should the petition fail.

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Jellykat · 12/02/2012 23:00

Have just checked on a brilliant Organisations' Website, they reach a lot of people, no campaigns against these cuts suggested as yet..Maybe we should suggest, it would reach a lot of people

Have a look
38degrees.org.uk

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 23:21

Jelly, I will take a deeper look at that in the morning. Thanks for the suggestion. :)

Just trying to think what the most effective way of campaigning would be.

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droitwichmummy · 12/02/2012 23:28

Signed (& bumping)

Jellykat · 12/02/2012 23:28

Well we could ring WA, see if they've got any campaigns directly attached to them, or if they've got any ads/ awareness campaigns planned that might need help with fund raising etc.. Just a thought, off to bed now Smile

StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 23:29

Thank you, droitwichmummy

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StarsAndBoulevards · 12/02/2012 23:32

Night, Jelly. Will get brainstorming tomorrow. Sleep well. :)

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PogueMahone · 12/02/2012 23:37

Signed.

TheFeministsWife · 13/02/2012 15:58

Signed, and shared on FB and Twitter.

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