"You can't expect to say things that are a very long way from the mainstream and not get a few wtf responses."
That's fair enough but this is the feminist board, which is a long way from the mainstream just by consistently and implacably declaring women's full humanity. This is the one space where we can discuss way out ideas and play with them and throw them around and see what gives. Sakura's right, people who come on here and say "OMG you are mad/ damaged/ crazy for discussing something that's outside my imagination" are really boring and not taking the discussion anywhere. She wasn't personally insulting anyone or trying to upset anyone by pointing that out. It would be very oafish of her to go over to a support thread and post sth like that, but this isn't a support thread is it, it's a feminist look at artificial wombs.
I think anyone who thinks there is any country in the world where men and women have a broadly similar experience of parenting, is kidding themselves. Scandinavia has some of the best conditions for women that's true, but it's still not on women's terms, it's still not equal, the pay gap hasn't bridged and rape still exists. In addition, women still don't own half the property or control half the companies or are half the judiciary or parliamentary representatives. I am always astonished by how ready women are to hand over yet more power to men on the basis that we've extracted a few rights here and there (which we can very easily lose again, btw - we have to fight bloody hard to keep the rights we've got, look at the recent onslaught on maternity rights and abortion rights just in this country, let alone anywhere else) we can rest easy and be comfortable that any piece of new technology controlled by men (because it is all controlled by men - look at the make up of all parliaments and judiciaries and medical controlling bodies if you don't believe me) will be used wholly to benefit women and has no sinister downsides at all.
Men as a class have form on how they've behaved towards women and are still behaving towards us and it is not mad to point that out and bring that experience into any discussion about handing over yet more power to them.