Female sexuality

[neepsntatties]

I have been thinking about this recently as I have become increasingly aware that I am totally disconnected from it. Everything I know about sex comes from a male perspective. My father had porn in the house, my early experiences were horrible, I have just started reading some extracts of Dworkin and although I don't totally get it all there is a lot in there that I feel I recognise if that makes sense. I don't know how to unpick years of seeing sex through the porn lense I guess (not that I ever watch porn but every representation/expectation I have experiences seems to come from that place). Where do you even start?

MillyR, if you are such an advocate for womens' sexuality, why is it that you were so critical of my sexuality, going as far as to make a hideous and hugely insulting comment about my husband on a thread on here last year?

It seems like your view of womens' sexuality only covers what you think is acceptable, do you seriously think that a woman who genuinely loves being spanked / giving blowjobs / whatever you deem inappropriate, has had her sexuality warped by porn?

I've never used porn, my husband has never used porn, our sexuality has evolved jointly over a great many years into something truly wonderful and symbiotic, my sexuality is as important to him as his is to me.

a little bit late, but welcome to my world