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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Preghead', 'baby brain'... is it real?

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porpoisefull · 15/05/2011 19:09

At the moment one of the discussions of the day is all about pregnant women recounting the silly things they do 'because they are pregnant'. When I was pregnant, I didn't find I was any more likely than usual to do daft things and I found it quite insulting that people might assume that I was going to be all ditzy. For example shortly after telling my SIL I was pregnant, I said the wrong word in a sentence, and she jumped on it "Ooh, nappy brain already!"

This study suggests it's a myth, and I've always thought people are keen to attribute to female hormones effects that are probably just the result of feeling knackered, or being distracted by having someone kicking at your insides. If a man with a 3 week old child was a bit absent minded at work, people would call it sleep deprivation not 'baby brain'.

I wondered whether other people here thought it was real or a myth?

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Dervel · 21/10/2020 19:47

I suspect it’s probably a spot of society wide gaslighting, the science seems to indicate actually the reverse effect occurs:

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1138954/Baby-brain-myth--womens-intelligence-increases-motherhood-claims-study.html

Pinktornado · 21/10/2020 20:58

Post-pregnancy exhaustion has a huge part to play I think. I remember my husband drifting off midway through a sentence when he was talking to the HV just after our DS was born, and just staring into space. Most unlike him. And he was maybe 1/4 as exhausted as I was. The HV didn’t look too surprised though!

LouiseAnders · 22/10/2020 08:13

Apologies I didn't spot the date.

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