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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do you ask for a female taxi driver if travelling alone at night?

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BertieBotts · 10/04/2011 18:29

If I am booking a taxi at night time and it's just me, I'd specifically use a company which I know have a female driver that I can request. I mentioned this to BF offhand and he didn't laugh exactly but I got the feeling he thought I was being a bit paranoid, he said it was unnecessary "these days" and found it hard to believe that most women would do the same.

I didn't have to justify myself at all but I felt I wanted to, but found it almost impossible to explain why I would just feel uncomfortable being alone in a car with a man I didn't know. But then I started to wonder if it's just me, or whether other women feel this way as well? I do take taxis with male drivers, when in a group, and I don't feel uncomfortable then. But then I realised it extends to people in general - I think if a female acquaintance offered me a lift I wouldn't think twice, whereas if it was a man, I would only get into a car with someone I already trusted, or trusted by proxy (e.g. friend/relative of someone whose judgement I trusted) - but why?? Am I being paranoid, or sexist, or just looking out for risks a decent man probably wouldn't even consider? Just wondered if others felt like this and whether they had noticed it before.

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TheMonster · 10/04/2011 18:32

I've never asked for a female driver. I've never even encountered a femal taxi driver!
I think you're being paranoid.

computermouse · 10/04/2011 18:38

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Grabaspoon · 10/04/2011 18:47

Nope - and I use them alot to get home from babysitting, or a night out etc.

I call and use reputable taxi companies - so don't feel there is an issue.

emsyj · 10/04/2011 18:50

No, but always use the same taxi firm and have always found their drivers really pleasant and never had any problems. Used them for 10+ years so I trust them, even tho they probably have zillions of drivers so is a bit silly really! Can't recall ever being driven by a female taxi driver anyway, altho they must exist.

ihatecbeebies · 10/04/2011 19:02

No I don't think you are being paranoid at all, just cautious. I used to phone for a female taxi driver if I was on my own but now I call my friend who's a taxi driver if he's out and he picks me up.

littleducks · 10/04/2011 19:07

It isn't something I have even considering doing. I have never felt worried/scared getting into a booked minicab.

AyeRobot · 10/04/2011 19:07

There was a heated debate on this recently.

Yes, I ask if they can send a woman driver. I don't go elsewhere if they don't have one available, though. It's just my preferred first option.

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