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Favourite feminist quotes for a feminist sampler - The Subversive Stitch

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Bumperlicioso · 04/04/2011 13:41

I've just started reading The Subversive Stitch by Rozsika Parker about the history of embroidery and its association with femininity.

I am inspired to make my own sampler (never made one before!) but want to creative something really at odds with the traditional Home Sweet Home type of sampler.

To this end I am looking for inspiring quotes or feminist sound bites. I'm still new to this theoretical feminism stuff. I'm finding the book quite hard to follow e.g. 'The manner in which embroidery signifies both self-containment and submission is key to understanding women's relation to the art. Embroidery has provided a source of pleasure and power for women, while being indissolubly linked to their powerlessness. Paradoxically, while embroidery was employed to inculcate femininity in women, it also enabled them to negotiate the constraints of femininity. Observing the covert way embroidery has provided a source of support and satisfaction for women leads us out of the impasse created by outright condemnation of uncritical celebration of the art.' Phew!

So I'm not sure whether it is ok to like embroidery and celebrate it as art rather than just menial craft (women did embroidery for free while men were paid for their art such as painting) or not to and see it as a symbol of a life of leisure while men earned money and a stereotypically female activity.

Either way, I quite like crafting, and quite fancy doing as I suggested and making a sampler, but something subverting the stereotype. Any suggestions?

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Bumperlicioso · 04/04/2011 14:39

Well, I was going to put it on my wall Grin, I was looking for something subtler. I was looking at some threads and saw 'Liberty, Egality, Maternity' which I though was quite good, but maybe too subtle. Something 'domestic' would suit the idea I think.

Slogan was the word I was looking for, rather than quote.

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steamedtreaclesponge · 04/04/2011 14:41

Aaah, good idea - I've been planning to make a 'fuck the patriarchy' cross-stitch sampler for a while, but just haven't had the time recently.

How about 'well-behaved women rarely make history'?

Bumperlicioso · 04/04/2011 14:56

There are some good ones here but I can't find the right one. I don't want it to be twee like 'Bless this mess' or 'Fridge pickers wear big knickers' Grin

Maybe 'Bless this feminist' Grin

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systemsaddict · 04/04/2011 15:02

assuming you have come across this site? tempts me to get back into cross-stitch ...

www.subversivecrossstitch.com/

systemsaddict · 04/04/2011 15:03

most are not really feminist slogans though ... but I like 'Welcome tiny overloard' Grin

seeker · 04/04/2011 15:06

"The Personal is Political"

Bumperlicioso · 04/04/2011 15:20

Systemsaddict, I've just found that link from another site, looks great. Actually this is more subtle:

A B C D E F
U C K T H E
P A T R I A
R C H Y Z

Grin
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sethstarkaddersmackerel · 04/04/2011 15:59

I don't think 'Fuck the patriarchy' will ever really be bettered as a cross-stitch slogan, really Grin

seeker · 04/04/2011 16:01

SCUM

Fennel · 04/04/2011 16:30

Here is a good site

radicalcrossstitch.com/xstitch/

I quite like "Riots not Diets" though it doesn't really rhyme well enough.

Fennel · 04/04/2011 16:32

From that site, I also like

"Happy Fucking holiday, deer" with some stitching of a Christmas tree and two deer.

And "Go fuck yourself".

I'm almost tempted to pick up a needle.

AliceWorld · 04/04/2011 17:15

Bumper, thankyou! That is exactly what I needed. I've been wanting to do a Fuck the Patriarchy one for a while, but felt it was little too in your face (I know I know), but that sampler style one is fantastic! Grin

Bumperlicioso · 09/04/2011 20:31

So I recently got this book, after. It has things like this and this. They are brill and I can't wait to get stitching!

But I want to do one for my dad and his (3rd) wife who are getting married in the summer. He's pretty cool, a drama teacher and has a good sense of humour. He's a bit like a cross between Bill Bailey and Eddie Izzard (though without the high heels!). Can anyone think of anything suitably celebratory that I could do for them? I know this isn't feminism related (and have also posted in Arts and Crafts) but with Mumsnetters' reputation for being eloquently rude I thought I'd pick your brains Grin

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HerBeX · 09/04/2011 20:48

Men can stop rape?

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