OK, so here's how it went
I did the lesson (90 minutes) with two classes:
Class 1: 3 male university students from very privileged backgrounds and one woman, early 30s, just returned to work after two year absence to have her first child (her H is currently a SAHD). I normally have 2 other women in the group, but sadly they weren't there.
Class 2: 7 women, aged from 17 to early 50s, plus one man, mind-twenties.
Bearing in mind it was an English lesson, so the focus was on language, idioms and reading techniques and feminism just happened to be the topic, there were some very interesting things said.
Class 1: As expected the woman in class 1 had some very interesting things to say given her own situation and attitudes towards her in the workplace before and after her pregnancy. We're in Spain so luckily maternity provision is good and attitudes aren't far behind, but still it was quite eye-opening for the 3 guys, especially in the context of the Gloria Steinem quote:
"I've yet to be on a campus where most women weren't worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I've yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing."
One of the boy's father is a diplomat and he commented that it seemed to be easier for women to get a job in the public sector than a man, due to quotas: he elaborated that in the diplomatic service many relatively inexperienced women were being promoted over more experienced men. However, I think by the end of the lesson he'd revised his opinions somewhat and agreed that there was a gap between the policy in theory and in practice.
The boys were also very accepting of the continued need for feminism/feminists in modern society, which was an interesting contrast to....
Class 2: two of the girls immediately commented that they didn't like feminists/didn't see the point: we've already got equality, feminists hate men, feminists think women are better than men, etc. Luckily two of the other girls were quite knowledgeable and set them straight, pointing out that gay-rights campaigners don't think gay people are superior, so why assume that women's rights campaigners think women are superior? I wasn't aware of this, but there is a big debate in Spain about providing feminine versions of masculine nouns (e.g. "el jefe" - the boss - is masculine; if the boss is a woman, should it be "la jefa"?) which many of them thought frivolous and unimportant.
As the lesson progressed, however, they mostly got into it, and they especially liked the Ginger Rogers/Fred Astaire quote and:
We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. ~Gloria Steinem
as we'd been talking the other day about how few Spanish men could cook!
I think by the end they had all agreed that feminism was still both relevant and necessary though, apart from the two who were already quite interested in it, I can't see any of them adopting a more feminist outlook as a result. Just to perhaps be more open and sympathetic to texts/people labeled "feminist" in the future.
thanks again for all the suggestions. I'm now planning a follow up on fairy tales using those parody clips somebody posted! 