One that I've been a member of for 10+ years - there is a thread from a woman asking about how others would feel if they found out their husband had taken their 18 year old son to a lap dancing club and paid for him to have private dances as a bithday present.
The vast majority of posters, probably slightly more women than men, thought it was no big deal and a bit of harmless fun.
The thread starter has explained that it sickened her and I think she was looking for validation that her feelings weren't wrong, instead she had people telling her that boys will be boys and that all men do it, basically she should just shut up and accept it. 
Of course I offered my support to her along with my opinion of men and women who think it's perfectly fine.
I had my access to the thread denied because it's a "family" forum ( dedicated to holidays in Orlando mainly) because I dared to use the word vagina .
Yet there were people on that thread saying how their sons and husbands had gone to live sex shows in Amsterdam and it "wasn't a problem" and it's "no different to watching the Chippendales" 
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A couple of people also used the cliche, " I bet you don't think your husband watches porn either".
Do the majority of people out there really think lap dancing clubs are harmless fun?