I did listen to the programme. It is depressing to discover that so many teenagers are embarking on adulthood, based on such bad relationships and bad sexual experiences.
It sounds like some of the girls involved in the programme had been raped, but they did not regard it as rape because it was their normality.
A couple of quotes from the programme:
Based on interviews with teenagers aged 13 to 17 in England, Scotland and Wales,
"In 2009, the NSPCC published a report on partner exploitation and violence in intimate teenage relationships... 88 percent said they had been in some sort of relationship with a partner. More worryingly, many of the girls said they were experiencing violence. A quarter said they had been pushed, slapped or hit. A third admitted that they had been pressured or forced into sexual acts against their will and nearly three quarters claimed they had been bullied, humiliated, called names or controlled by a boyfriend. And this was reported across all backgrounds and classes. So while teenage relationships are generally healthy, for a significant minority there seems to be abuse, and some of that is happening on the Internet ... That is what makes it distinct from adult domestic violence."
"Why are boys failing to understand what abuse behaviour is? Youth projects point to one pervasive influence - porn."