There are groups out there (Public Enemy, Beastie Boys, A Tribe Called Quest, De La Soul - all golden oldies) who didn't feel the need to be bitching and ho'ing all over the place but I have to admit that I still like a dance to some of the worst offenders such as Busta Rhymes et al.
I have loved the music since I first heard Ice-T sample Curtis Mayfield on Superfly (and it inspired me to dig back and discover artists like Curtis etc) aged 13 and I still love it now 21 years later.
But morally and intellectually so much of it offends me on two levels:
(a) the revolting attitude to women displayed in a lot of the music; (not to mention the videos - the most recent posting about Kanye West's Monster video on YouTube was extremely repugnant - now for a woman to be of interest they have to be dead apparently); and
(b) the stereotype it perpetuates of black people and particularly black men (gun-toting gangsta) which I think is damaging for the black community as a whole
But what do you do? I long for the good old days (SugarHill Gang) when it was all (good-natured) bragaddocio about who had the best rhymes but it looks like that time has past. I no longer spend money on artists that are anti-women, doesn't stop me liking a lot of tunes that if you listen to the words are just dire and reprehensible.
Flame away if you need to. Have namechanged and am not just posting to be 'controversial' - I just wondered whether there was anyone in the same boat out there and if so, what do you do? Have been thinking about it a lot recently (more so because my DS is 1 and we play and dance to music a lot and I am VERY careful with my choices)