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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Books for pre-schoolers

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ISNT · 04/12/2010 20:00

nspired by the fairytales thread!

Most of the books I come across for the DDs (1 and 3) have a male lead, or a non-gendered lead which by default of the English language is male IYSWIM.

Any recommendations of books/anthologies of stories with female leads who aren't pretty pretty fairies etc?

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notnowbernard · 04/12/2010 20:01

Aesop's Fables?

Often has animals as leads and delivers a strong moral message etc

notanumber · 04/12/2010 20:14

That Rabbit Belongs to Emily Brown has a female protagonist who is brave and gets angry and does stuff. It's very good.

onimolap · 04/12/2010 20:30

Ella's Great Chance, a picture book reworking of Cinderella, in which she jilts the Prince to run off with Buttons.

For animal stories, you could try Olga da Polga, and when a bit older, The Little White Horse.

ISNT · 04/12/2010 21:32

Ooh there is a whole range of emily brown books! Have ordered the rabbit ones...

aesop's fables I have (somewhere!) but it's the whole default if no sex given then it's male problem (I find it really hard to shake this as it's the correct way to do it and how I've always done it IYSWIM). Need to work on that...

Ella's great chance not on amazon Sad

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notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:07

Ella's Big Chance

onimolap · 04/12/2010 22:09

Thanks notanumber: I had a feeling when I typed it that it wasn't quite right!

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:10

The Princess Smartypants books are a bit of a classic of the genre, but do seem a little dated now (roller disco, anyone?)

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:12

Pirate Girl is a great read.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:19

The Paper Bag Princess features a princess who starts out wanting to be married to a nice prince but ends up doing all kinds of brave and resourceful things and ultimately recognising that the prince is an enormous twonk who doesn't value all her amazing qualities (just the superficial stuff like nice clothes and castles and titles) and is totally not worth marrying.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:22

Amazing Grace is all about Grace, a black girl who wants to be Peter Pan in a school play, but - shock! horror! - she's not a white boy. A good book about believing inyourself and refusing to be pigeonholed.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:26

Louise, The Adventures of a Chicken has a strong courageous and adventurous female character.

scouserabroad · 04/12/2010 22:27

Rosie's hat : Little girl grows up to be a firefighter.

Daisy Daisy gets on my nerves because she is a PITA but my DDs love her - def not pretty pretty and always gets what she wants Grin

Maisy mouse Spin offs from the DVDs & hardly any text but Maisy is definitely female and always solves all the problems she comes across. She also drives a train, flies in a hot air balloon, works on a farm, does the housework...

On a slightly different note, does anyone else's DC automatically assume that characters in books / TV are female, if it isn't immediately obvious from the name? My DDs always think that Noddy, Andy Pandy, Mowgli from the Jungle Book, and even Pinocchio are girls!

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:28

Tough Chicks

"Lively language and bold illustrations capture all the fun and humour of this delightfully different farmyard romp that's also a resounding endorsement for letting girls be girls (even if they're loud and tough and like to play with tractors.)

From the moment Penny, Polly, and Molly hatch from their eggs, the whole farm knows they are truly tough chicks. They wrestle worms, rope roosters, and are often found under the hood of the tractor.

All the other animals and even the farmer himself tell Mama Hen to make her chicks good. "They are good!" Mama Hen replies. But could her chicks be too loud, too independent, and too tough?"

notanumber · 04/12/2010 22:31

My Name Is Not Isabella: Just How Big Can A Little Girl Dream?

Throughout an ordinary day, Isabella imagines herself in the roles of extraordinary women such as Sally Ride, Rosa Parks and Annie Oakley.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 23:46

Violet the Pilot is about a girl who is teased because she loves science and mechanics but she manages to use her skills to rescue her classmates in an emergency.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 23:50

Nicely seasonal, this one: What Does Mrs Claus Do? explores the idea that Santa is just a frontman - it's Mrs Claus who has all the ideas and imagination.

notanumber · 04/12/2010 23:53

Princess Pigsty

"Princess Isabella has it all - but has had enough of all of it. She has had enough of being waited on hand and foot, of having to smile all the time, and of wearing beautiful dresses that she can't climb trees in. So when the king banishes her to the pigsty, his punishment backfires - Isabella's happier there than a pig in mud"

notanumber · 04/12/2010 23:57

Girls: A to Z describes (mainly with illustrations - so good for littlies) girls dreaming about all the careers open to them.

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:02

Elena's Serenade is rather charming. A little Mexican girl following her dream of becoming a glassblower.

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:06

The Pirate Meets the Queen

The story of Irish pirate Granuaile O'Malley who sneaks aboard her father?s ship.

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:09

A nice one for little children is Punxsutawney Phyllis, which about a brave woodchuck (?!) called Phyllis who dreams of being the next official weather-predicting groundhog despite the fact that it?s always been a male job.

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:13

A Fire Engine for Ruthie explicitly tackles the cultural expectations of dolls for girls / trucks for boys in an acessible picturebook.

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:14

Sorry, I'll stop now.

I went on a big feminist book buying spree fairly recently. Can you tell? Blush

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:20

Oh no, wait! Can't believe I forgot Meggie Moon!

Digger and Tiger spend all their time in the Yard. No one else dares to come there - it's their place. Then one day someone arrives, wanting to play. Worse still, it's a girl! But when Meggie builds a fantastic racing car, and then an amazing pirate ship, they have to admit she does have some brilliant ideas...

notanumber · 05/12/2010 00:48

Sally Jean, the Bicycle Queen is also nice. A little girl gets too big for her bike and her parents can?t afford to buy her a replacement so she she uses her knowledge and ingenuity to build a new one.

I really am done now, honest.