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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

feminism and transsexuel people

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sparky159 · 16/07/2010 09:16

ive started this thread as the other thread[reccomend a book]has now finished!
why do some feminists find it so hard to even think that transsexuel people exist?
and why cant they see that transsexuelism is a femminist issue?

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LePapa · 16/07/2010 11:00

?By MillyR Thu 15-Jul-10 20:10:06
Lepapa, nobody is saying that men cannot participate in general life in things that are culturally female. There are simply a few area that feminists want to keep for biological females only. There are huge numbers of other female events and cultural activities where trans people are quite welcome. Trans people are welcome at many feminist events as well - you don't have to be female to be a feminist.

You persistently seem unable to differentiate between what constitutes material reality and what constitutes a social construct and how those two elements interact, which strikes me as odd when you have tried to frame some of your arguments in evolutionary and biocultural terms.

I certainly would not consider it extreme if a white person tried to get access to services that were ringfenced for ethnic minorities and was turned down or excluded from those services. People who have dual or multiple heritages (what you term 'biracial') constitute ethnic minorities in their own right anyway - there isn't some binary of black and white.?

MillyR? Thank you for addressing things reasonably and actually taking the time to respond and dissect me! My penance for being male so far has been to be ignored or insulted? but I guess that the females here could site a long history of that? and I?m not exactly blameless in being a tad cheeky? although I try to do so with a nod and wink, rather than an atomic strike!
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The binary black and white reference you make does add up? to a degree, but I would say that those of ?mixed heritage? are not really seen as an ethnic minority in ?their own right?? maybe by reasonable grounded human beings, or even within ?patriarchal? law systems? but extremists who want to arrest the definitions and meanings around what it is to be ?black? or ?white?, ?male? or ?female?, ?protestant? or catholic? only see such people as detrimental to their cause? a watered down version of what they are fighting for, and if the meanings they are fighting for are watered down then it?s harder to make a case? definitions in a state of flux are not advantageous to creating a firm platform on which to build ones case, as the ?other side?, whoever that is, can use the anomolies in definition to railroad the debate down a cul-de-sac. This is why, I feel, extremists deny shades of grey that undermine their case?. I would argue though that encompassing ideologies actually benefit a standpoint in the longer term as it demonstrates and openness, freedom and confidence in the ideology to enable it to be fluid as it moves forward. Definitions of how we make sense of the world are changing? feminism has a large role to play in this obviously, as it challenges established meanings and practices. There is still a long, long, long way to go, but part of that is also surely the feminist journey to meeting the challenges, rather than standing behind the barricades telling the world to change to fit the feminist agenda.

Material Reality vs Social Construct.
We as humans I think interpret what we perceive to be material reality by what are in fact social constructs? this is how we see the world, debate with each other, develop our understanding and move forward.
The argument that chromosomes merely dictate what is or isn?t ?female?, and thus a material reality, are put forward I think in this debate as the evidence that transgendered individuals do not fit into what it is to be female? any attempt therefore to define MTF?s as female goes against this essential ?reality?? As you point out I have put it that evolution has created men and women differently, but I believe that this is more than a physical difference, and that notions of what it is ?to be? that gender extend beyond physicality, and also beyond the social constructs of being addressed as a ?man? or ?woman? through society. We have evolved differently and our brains have evolved in different ways due to the reality that historically we as men and woman have carried out differing roles in the survival of the species. Feminists can argue that this is essentially unfair or that my point is typically male, but I would be denying the oppression of women if I stated that I felt we were in fact equal. We are not. We are not because women have been subjugated throughout history in almost every culture? The ideal is that we are, and we should be, but patriarchy has made it that women are not equal. We have evolved over millions of years to carry out roles, and how we interact with the world as humans has as much to do with evolution in a physical sense (body & mind[brain]), as it does with being addressed by societies preconceptions of gender roles.
Men are crap at looking for things because they evolved to scour their environment for larger things that they could kill. They therefore can?t find their keys, generally speaking. If it was tied to a boar, life would be easier for me. I?m not a scientist or biologist but I work with many of them. I?ve discussed the issues around transgenderism with many of them and they mostly agree, including the women, and even a feminist, that there are examples in the animal kingdom of creatures of one gender acting as the other despite the physical appearance and markings of the creature. This isn?t stereotyping gender roles proscribed in animals, but the reality that to preserve their species they have evolved to be physically reproductive, and mentally role specific. Men and women have different brains? they have evolved that way. Trans-people therefore are just part of the human race, and some have naturally female instinct or male instinct? Some of us define ourselves as male or female and have elements within the brain that can be ascribed to the opposite sex, but we are all individuals, and as such feel how we feel, regardless of labels? or genitalia? and we express ourselves as how we feel? if this offends some, I would suggest it is the objectors problem, and not that of the individual. Animals who 'act' as the opposite gender are accepted by other creatures within the species generally speaking, yet in humans, because of our social conditioning, we find it difficult to accept, because we have 'made sense' of our world, we have built our ideas in stone and now we have uncovered that nature in fact challenges that, and thus challenges our previously held definitions...

www.newhorizons.org/neuro/diamond_male_female.htm

www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbo dy/sex/index_cookie.shtml

I would say though that as the world changes, it is women who are better equipped for the new worlds, albeit that men will continue to try and wrestle power? but this is what we see in the crisis of masculinity, and the reaction of some men to become mysoginistic? it?s the same for any dominant goose-stepping ideology trying to cling onto power.

Apologies for the length... but i've tried to avoid being a Bombastipottomous!

sally66 · 16/07/2010 12:54

someone on the other thread stated

Feminists are going to have a much better case if we draw a clear line on sex, if we teach that males cannot, and should not, be considered females by law; that radical feminists draw the line right there."

I did ask the to elaborate but she would not answer me.

sally66 · 16/07/2010 13:07

Dose this mean that radical feminists are campaigning against GID females not to be known as women?

Sex Discrimination Act of 2005 does say that "it was amended to expressly outlaw harassment on grounds of sex and on grounds of gender reassignment. Harassment does not have to be targeted at a particular victim who is known to be trans. It is enough that trans-phobic language, ?jokes? or actions create a hostile environment."

So, isn't this discrimination?

LePapa · 16/07/2010 13:22

Yip, it is sally666, but the argument would be that the sex discrimination is a patriarchal law forced onto woman to subjugate them, rather than a law to realise equality for all... an example they would argue is that transwomen are not women... in their eyes

That is essentially why the Human Rights Act exists... to stand up for people whom mainstream society deems as 'offensive' or some way 'deviant'... it's a counterbalance against the democratisation of rights where the majority can force the minority to adhere to their vision of what is or isn't acceptable based on outdated ideologies, whatever the manifestation of their righteous vision is...

sparky159 · 16/07/2010 15:58

yes Sally this would be discrimination!
i also feel that it would be bizaire if people started campaigning for this-
actually-i feel that it would be blatent hate!

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MillyR · 16/07/2010 20:06

Lepapa, thanks for your post which was very civil and considered. My main issue with it is that saying you have spoken to some scientists about it and they all agree with you isn't really a compelling argument. I work in a related field and I don't find this convincing. What scientists think is really better discussed with support from journal papers rather than anecdote.

But rather than getting into all of that, I'm just going to make some basic points about animal and human ecology.

You haven't provided an example of an animal that is treated by other animals as female even though it is male. The male fish you mentioned simply formed two different male groups, and were not treated as female by the other fish. They were simply a third group. T

The link to sex differences between the anatomy of the brains of male and female brains makes no mention of this leading to different behaviour, so I don't understand how it supports your argument.

Humans are different to other species. Our primary method of adaptation is no longer speciation or biological evolution. The reason why humans have expanded into a huge number of different niches is because they use culture to adapt. There is very little biological difference between an English person and a hunter-gatherer in the Amazonian rainforest, but our means of surviving in our environment are radically different, and it takes 20 years of specific cultural training to create a self-sufficient adult in either environment.

While there are some culturally-specific areas of animal behaviour that some animals have to learn (bird song for example), almost all animal behaviour is innate. A horse is a horse and will behave in very similar ways if you put it anywhere in the world within its environmental limits. So when you talk about the gender of animals you are referring to cultural behaviour, not all behaviour, because gender is a social construct and most animal behaviour is not socially constructed.

So if we are to look for such a thing as a female brain, we need to look at behaviours that females all over the world carry out. And what is obvious is that there are huge variations in female behaviour, as we learn our cultural niches. So it again leaves us with the problem of what, beyond getting pregnant and nurturing the young, is universal human behaviour. There really isn't any - it is hugely culturally variable, because unlike most behaviour in other species, it is socially constructed.

If there are (and that is a big if) universal human female behavioural traits, they have to be related to fitness (survival of related offspring who themselves are capable of reproduction). So a man with a female brain would have a desire to participate in the reproduction or nurturing of infants. Yet this is rarely or never mentioned by trans people in their explanation of wanting to be a woman. So in what evolutionary sense do they have a female brain?

As for your car keys example, that makes no sense in evolutionary terms; most past and present hunter-gatherers carry out more fishing than hunting of terrestrial mammals, and if you can't pay close attention to detail, you are going to struggle to fish using a hunter-gatherer method. Even hunting for land mammals requires tracking, which again involves attention to detail. Also, in many societies, women hunt.

sparky159 · 16/07/2010 20:29

Milly
[so a man with a female brain.................]

yes-interesting point!
this is something that is rarely talked about with transpeople as its a very painful subject!
often with the transwomen this is one of theyre biggest sadness-not being able to bear a child and nuturing of a child!
ftm also can have the same feelings but for oppisite reasons[obviously]!
the transwomen that i have met who do have children-theyve come across as being very "motherly"!

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MillyR · 16/07/2010 21:10

Sparky, men can nurture children, and do so all the time. They just can't get pregnant or breastfeed, which was essential to the nurturing of infants worldwide in the past. I think a lot of the idea of being 'motherly' is also a social construct.

MillyR · 16/07/2010 21:16

A man who had hormone treatments, could in some cases, breastfeed. The chances of this happening is hugely reduced if they have breast implants. So if a man wants to become a women because he feels 'motherly', why have implants that make him look like a woman but actually reduces his capacity to develop female biological, nurturing capabilities?

It again seems as if it is more about seeing women as visual objects rather than people with functioning bodies.

sparky159 · 16/07/2010 21:21

Milly
im not saying that a man wants to become a woman because he feels motherly!

[it again seems............]
no not at all!

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sally66 · 17/07/2010 07:27

My child has been asked time and time again about sperm banking. Which she is refusing to do. Reasons being.

To have to produce sperm means to touch something on your body that you hate.

Sperm banking is not guaranteed a pregnancy.

She is not attracted to women so, this will mean she will have to find a donor egg then a surrogate mum. This will not make the child feel like hers. If she can't carry the child herself then she does not see the point. She would rather adopt.

This is the way that she has explained it to me and her doctors.

SolidGoldBrass · 20/07/2010 00:41

It's an indisputable fact that gender/sex are actually continuums, not a binary division. Human beings can be, and often enough are, born neither clearly male, nor clearly female le literally born with both ovaries and testes (though neither are likely to be functional) or chromosomal variations. Given this, why do some people find it so hard to accept that not everyone is comfortable with the gender they have been assigned and that to be near the middle of the continuum can be very distressing, particularly of the response of those around you is to tell you to get over it - or to treat you as a freak or failure.

If you can't get your head round the basic biology of this, then you're certainly too thick to be a friend of mine.

Tempestes · 20/07/2010 02:13

I agree with SGB. If you pay any attention to both sexes genitals you can see similarities between both, due to how they develop in the womb. It's not such a leap between the sexes, or in fact those in between.

TheBossofMe · 20/07/2010 02:50

Posting from Thailand here. I've been reading the book thread with great interest. Here in Thailand, being transexual just doesn't merit this kind of discussion at all - its just commonly accepted as third sex and has been for many many years (my 2nd posting here after a gap of more than 20 years).

For a TS to define themselves as male or female would be met with very puzzled looks; no matter how closely they might physically be imitating one gender or another, the ambition seems to be third sex, not male or female.

FWIW, homosexuality is also highly prevalent and societally accepted amongst Bangkokians. Less so outside Bangkok.

sparky159 · 20/07/2010 09:12

thankyou TheBossofMe
yep-this is a bit like ive been trying to say-although i believe that transwomen are women i also believe in third gender!
[hence me talking about spectrums a few days ago]
pheraps my country should be looking towards youre country and finding out why we find these things so difficult!

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DuelingFanjo · 20/07/2010 09:14

I've known two post-op transexuals and one other who didn't go through with the operation. They all had my utmost respect.

chibi · 20/07/2010 09:22

I can understand trans being a third sex

but I think surely feeling like a woman derives from living as and being treated as a woman

in the same way that as I have been identified as white, treated as white, benefitted from White privilege- is it accurate for me to say, well I am uncomfortable with being white, I am actually black, and know how it feels to be black, as much as someone who has been identified/treated as black from birth

and then to cap it off threatening black people with police action and accusations of hate crime if they query my right to identify myself as black

chibi · 20/07/2010 09:24

in other words I am not convinced that

not feeling like a man = feeling like a woman

frikonastick · 20/07/2010 09:37

TheBossOfMe, the reason its not an issue (broadly speaking i am sure) in bangcock is because no one is claiming to be a sex they are not. transexuals form a third sex.

the argument here is that if you are a man, and you dont feel like one, this automatically makes you a woman. for obvious reasons, this is being refuted by, you know, actual women.

SolidGoldBrass · 20/07/2010 09:38

Chibi: transpeople know what it's like to be discriminated against, though. From a very early age, they will have been constantly told that they are wrong, that they shouldn't want what they want, that they can't do certain things, that their behaviour must be modified to appease others all the time. It's not like they wake up one day and think, ooh, I'll have a sex change, I;ve got nothing else to do.

I don't get why it's such a big deal to mundanes to label everyone else, though. If someone wants to identify themselves as male, female, neuter or an animated cardboard box, WTF has it got to do with you?

chibi · 20/07/2010 09:45

Arf at mundane

funny how people so opressed by a gender binary, so insistent on a gender continuum just can't wait to reinforce such a narrow and rigid understanding of what man and woman are- if you aren't a man you must be a woman

SolidGoldBrass · 20/07/2010 09:49

Chibi: I'm not sure I understand your last post. I think everyone's somewhere on the continuum but (in matters such as which loo to use) you have to pick one or the other, so surely it's up to the individual to choose?

On something of a tangent, am I the only one who thinks all loos ought to be unisex anyway? As long as there are enough cubicles, what does it matter?

wastingaway · 20/07/2010 09:52

Strange men nearby when we're at our most vulnerable? Not comfy SGB.

In a perfect world, obviously, there'd be no problem with that. But we have to make changes from where we are.

sparky159 · 20/07/2010 09:56

no youre not the only one SolidGoldBrass-
i think loos should be unisex aswell!

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chibi · 20/07/2010 09:57

I am confused too

it just seems contradictory to say on the one hand there isn't any such thing as 'woman', that it is a state of mind

and then to fiercely identify yourself as woman, threatening legal action if anyone queries it

I don't deny that trans people experience discrimination, but I don't understand how that makes them women

To me it seems like saying that I have experienced discrimination as a woman, gay men experience discrimination, thus I must be a gay man

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