I went from the scan to having the hysteroscopy fairly quickly, however, on the day I raised concerns that having a coil fitted in my forties was absolute agony for me, but I was raced through, I felt pressured into agreeing to have it done there and then. The bloke was saying 'well if we defer and wait for another slot that will take such and such time, maybe longer, on the other hand you can be out of here within half an hour if you just have it done today'. I gave in and bitterly regretted it, I found it agony, one male doctor poking and prodding with at least four nurses around me, pray tell why do they need that amount of nurses in the room? I was writhing and moaning in pain, not offered gas and air at all just given two paracetamol beforehand.
That said it is well known that some women are not bothered and don't feel the pain that badly during this procedure, but there are thousands of us left traumatised by it, I was a wreck for weeks after, it was barbaric, I'd rather go through labour again than have that done again.
So, my advice to you is do not wait until the appointment to discuss your options, my referral was really quick, so quick I didn't get the proper letter and info beforehand and walked in not really sure what was going to happen.
After all the pain, and when in recovery with a cup of tea and no biscuits because I have a wheat allergy ! Of course a hospital can't cater for that, I was shaking and in shock, I could hear another woman crying and moaning in the distance, the nurse sat in the room observing me and a few others kept turning the radio up a notch. I'm not sure if they should have let me go, but I just wanted to run as fast as I could away from them. It all took over two hours, not the half hour he promised. It turned out there was nothing much happening, slightly thickened lining and a heart shaped womb was diagnosed.