I have my legs crossed reading this. It sounds horrific and unless we stamp our feet and refuse to be gaslit they can all go home with their medieval instruments under their arms and practise on themselves!
I was due to have a TVS followed by hysteroscopy if necessary. Am post meno and in my late 60s so things are a bit atrophied down there, but nothing that bothers me too much either. I had spotting, so being the good woman that I am I got it seen to immediately. At the consultants I refused a hysteroscopy without sedation or GA. She looked at me sideways and raised an eyebrow, with the usual spiel of " most women tolerate it very well". How I didn't tell her to fuck off to the far side of fuck I don't know, but I was so angry, and insisted on GA.
So in the end and quite quickly (scary....) she decided to go straight for a Hysteroscopy D+C under general. OK that's fine. While on the table, it was suddenly changed to a full transcervical resection + polyp removal. So I got the lot done in one go. Much better..... I had a difficult recovery due to bleeding.
I am still mad as hell with aftercare though. I had metres of gauze packing in the vag due to bleeding. OMG she came around and yanked all that out without a bit of pain relief or lubrication. I screamed with the pain. Medieval fucking torture. I will be complaining. Am awaiting pathology so am in another worry phase until then and I hope I don't punch that surgeon in the face. And of course I am worried about the diagnosis.
Funny isn't it that all colonoscopies are done with sedation if you want, but hysteroscopy is not. Colonoscopies are for both sexes, Hysteroscopies are for women only. Go figure.
Sorry for the long essay. I am so traumatised that I want to shout at the indignity and unfairness of my treatment. Oh yes, there were two males in the ward while I was dripping blood and I had to pass their beds to get to the loo. Unbelievable, but was explained as shortage of beds. The men were moved after a few hours. Awful awful awful. Sorry I'm in a bad place.