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Has anyone suddenly "gone off" alcohol

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LoftyMintCat · 13/09/2025 22:23

Hi, this may sound strange or perhaps not, but this year for some reason I have totally gone off alcohol. I'm 39, and usually would enjoy a bottle of prosecco over a weekend, or a couple of glasses of wine once Friday eve came, even looking forward to it to destress after a busy week. However, I would say since last Xmas I've totally gone off it. Its really odd, I can still fancy it, especially in the hot weather we recently had, even went to the shop specially 🤣 to pick some up, got home, poured a glass, had a sip, didn't want it. This is how I've been all year, when I've been out to a pub, not one alcohol beverage took my fancy, and I ordered a lemon flavoured cocktail in the end to shut everyone else up. Anyone else gone through this, like even earlier on today I thought I'll have a glass, but then here I am writing this, only after I got curious, googled and the only hits I can see about going off alcohol is advice on withdrawal if you have an alcohol addiction. I'm just curious really, is there something wrong with me 😅.

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PollyDarton1 · 16/09/2025 04:37

Yep! In my 20s and 30s I could pack it away and did so, but I think I started the perimenopause at around 38 and not only did I not really fancy it much anymore but whenever I had even the smallest glass of wine, I would feel sick, dizzy, hot flushed and generally very unwell - as if I already had the hangover before I’d even drank much!

I haven’t drank in two years now.

Sandyshandy · 16/09/2025 05:51

I’m another. Same as loads of others - it’s just not worth the suffering for one glass! Can still drink beer though, but not more than a half.

justasking111 · 16/09/2025 06:20

I drank alcohol free wine at a party last Christmas tasted fine. Had an awful hangover and upset stomach the next day. It's more than alcohol I'm intolerant to I think. Sulphate perhaps.

HFR · 16/09/2025 10:04

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 14/09/2025 10:11

I went off it before I knew I was pregnant

Exactly the same with me, I gave up before trying for a baby and obvs when pregnant and breastfeeding, I had a sip of champagne at my daughters christening and I don’t miss it at all! Am still breastfeeding and been off it about three years and you just get used to not having it even at hen parties and weddings it doesn’t bother me.

smallsilvercloud · 16/09/2025 11:41

I used to enjoy drinking socially drinking and having the odd bottle of wine at home, but since 41 a few years ago now, I really can’t stand it. Don’t feel the urge, I also worry about health more getting older.

Summerhillsquare · 16/09/2025 12:59

llizzie · 15/09/2025 20:44

The wine you were drinking is not satisfying you. You should try a better quality, a vintage, preferably French and bottled at the Chateau.

The wines which keep when opened in the fridge for days, are the expensive ones, like Chablis and Meursault. How much they cost depends on the vintage and where they were produced and where you buy them. There are online auctions you can bid online and get very reasonably priced vintages.

Perhaps one bottle of good plonk a week will be more satisfying that cheap wine which sometimes has added alcohol. The price will ensure you don't go too heavy on it.

St. Paul wrote in his letter to Timothy: 'Take a little wine with your food to help your digestion'. Very sound advice, and it works.

Charming but sadly nonsense.

llizzie · 17/09/2025 01:50

spoonbillstretford · 16/09/2025 03:29

It doesn't need alcohol added, it's more that with climate change they struggle to keep the alcohol level down.

That is interesting. I was repeating what I heard on TV. There is no doubt that there are some chemicals, or the process is different, otherwise there would not be such a difference in price.

People think it is the popularity of the vineyard or the publicity, and it might well be, but I have proven to myself that there is no doubt the best wines are pricey because they are better.

llizzie · 17/09/2025 02:09

Summerhillsquare · 16/09/2025 12:59

Charming but sadly nonsense.

Accurate. I cannot understand your remark at all. I can only conclude that you have never had the experience of a really good wine. I can't blame you for that. The best wines are expensive because they are the best all round.

There are wines selling at very high prices per bottle in off licences and online. You can look up the wines if you don't believe me. The joy of bidding on lots at auction is that many are of past vintages which are no longer available in the stores. They are usually wines which have been laid down in cellars of experts who have had to sell them or their estate has to. If the wines have been stored properly, you can enjoy a wine of 40 years old.

The auctions for wines can be held online by auctioneers separately or on the ''Saleroom'' site. The lots are set up weeks in advance and you can see the vintages, where they grapes are harvested and the chateau they are ascribed to. Then you look up the interesting vintages and google Ai will tell you if they are still drinkable, what the grape harvest was like the year it was produced. <y favourite wines are Chablis and Meursault.

The Chablis has ordinary, premier cru and Grand Cru, all at unbelievable prices in some places, but can be bought at lower prices - not cheap, you might have to pay £50 a bottle for some by the time you add everything, but those wines would cost well over £100 when available. Grand Cru Chablis is out of reach except when it occasionally surfaces at auction. Meursault is ordinary or premier cru. There isn't a grand cru.

The very exercise of looking up the lots in the auction house, researching the wines and vintages gives you enormous chances for learning about wines. Ai has opened up a whole new information process which didn't exist until the past year, perhaps less. Until Ai you bid more by chance than you do now. You would be surprised how nice some of the very old wines are.

People are put off the age, especially if they have not researched the wine and year, so I am rarely bid against.

Don't just dismiss what I say. Try it for yourself. You can get all the information from the auction sites as to how to register to bid and what the terms mean.

You have a few weeks to research the wines which catch your eye, and the start price, the auctioneer's guide price. Chances are if you bid on the start price you will win it. My four wheels is a wheelchair, but if you have a car and the auction house is not too far, you can collect it yourself after bidding online. You can also attend the auction if it is near you. You are more likely to be bid against if you do, though.

llizzie · 17/09/2025 02:11

Summerhillsquare · 16/09/2025 12:59

Charming but sadly nonsense.

If you think I am making up the quote from the New Testament, you can look that up too, in the Book of Timothy.

PrincessofEuphrania · 03/01/2026 09:00

sidebirds · 15/09/2025 18:04

I find myself warming to it the older I get. As my late father used to say, "It's a good friend but a terrible enemy". Never get drunk, though, & dislike being around drunken people.

That is brilliant advice. I’m going to remember that! Thank you

JacknDiane · 03/01/2026 09:13

Yep I hardly drink at all now. Opened a bottle of prosecco yesterday and managed nearly a glass before stopping. Waste of money!!!

LoftyMintCat · 03/01/2026 12:18

I'm not on weight loss jabs or pregnant, and still the same regarding alcohol since I did this thread in September, again, can fancy a glass, pour one, sip it and don't want it. However I have had gastrointestinal issues since my original thread that seemed to have a sudden onset, so it probably a good thing atm that I don't want any alcohol, awaiting gastroenterology and results from a colonoscopy. However there are times where I would welcome a bottle of wine to relive some worry and stress.

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