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Please tell me about your hysterectomy recovery

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Adenomyosis123 · 11/05/2025 15:44

Hi all

Regular user but name changed.

I am due to have a hysterectomy in a few weeks due to suffering prolonged and intense adenomyosis symptoms. Ironically, until my hysterectomy was confirmed, nothing helped. Tried the coil and pill. Things got really bad earlier this year when my usual pill was out of stock and I was put on a different pill and suffered almost three months of consistent heavy bleeding.

As a result, I agreed with my gynecologist that I would have a hysterectomy and his strong advice was that I should keep my ovaries so that I do not go into early menopause. So that is all now booked in.

But I'm now having second thoughts as: a) I've gone back on my usual pill and haven't had a normal period for a couple of months (just some spotting but it is very random so I have to wear a panty liner most days) and b) there's no guarantee it will work and I am worried about the recovery time.

My head is telling me to go ahead and do it, because if things get very bad again, I'll have to go through the whole process of referral, waiting list, etc. And I just want my life back without this looming over me.

But keen to hear your experiences on recovery. I'm having a keyhole operation, am 43 years old and otherwise in good health.

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Adenomyosis123 · 11/05/2025 23:09

Whatelsenowdearest · 11/05/2025 16:59

I’m about 5 weeks post hysterectomy. I had to have everything removed as I had womb cancer. Surgery was keyhole, minimal scars and no real post operative pain after about 2 days. Only needed paracetamol. I was in hospital for one night.

I was very surprised at how ‘well’ I felt afterwards. You do still need 4-6 weeks minimum to recover because it’s a major op but I expected to be feeling much worse after the op and to need bed rest or similar at least for the first week or so. After about day 4 I felt well enough to go outside for a walk.

The immediate menopause has been worse than the op to be honest, but if you’re keeping your ovaries then you won’t have that to deal with.

I’m 48 btw and not super fit or anything so have been very pleasantly surprised by how straightforward the recovery from surgery has been.

Thank you. I hope you're cancer has gone, or at least on its way out.

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Adenomyosis123 · 11/05/2025 23:11

JockyWilsonsaid · 11/05/2025 16:59

Had a total hysterectomy at 46, keyhole. One night in hospital, home following morning. Exhausted and sore for a few days, trapped wind was grim. Needed lots of naps. Walked to the chemist on day 4 to get my HRT prescription. Back in work after a fortnight. Certainly didn't need bed rest for 2 weeks!!

2 weeks bed rest seems OTT to me too but, then again, I do have a lot of books to read.......😀

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TheDogsMother · 11/05/2025 23:38

I had to have mine due to endometrial cancer. It was keyhole, everything out and I was home same day. I didn’t spend any day time in bed and I was doing a little bit of work on a laptop from day 2. Up to 10k steps by week 3 or 4. The worst thing was the wind pain immediately after the op as they inflate your abdomen but love heart sweets help with this. Good luck with your decision.

Disturbia81 · 12/05/2025 16:19

MeatRaffleRita · 11/05/2025 22:52

I'm awaiting a gynae referral for large fibroids and adenomyosis, so I am also interested in everyone's experiences. I'm pretty sure hysterectomy will be one of the options.

I hope people don't mind me asking, but, how do you function sexually afterwards? Does everything return to normal? Better even perhaps?

Asking as this aspect has been a no go for so long due to the constant bleeding, I'm tempted to opt for hysterectomy if asked but I'm scared that I'll be sexually changed somehow. Especially if they remove the cervix - do they just sew up the opening? and how is it possible for people still get light bleeding as mentioned by a PP?

Because the cervix still gets a tiny bit of womb lining on every month.
I’ve heard sex can feel different if everything removed, one friend said she prefers bigger penises now!

Sex is better for me after just having womb out as no pregnancy worries! Still feels just as good, exactly the same.

MeatRaffleRita · 12/05/2025 17:26

Thank you @Disturbia81

Very useful info!

Disturbia81 · 12/05/2025 17:45

MeatRaffleRita · 12/05/2025 17:26

Thank you @Disturbia81

Very useful info!

No worries! I had a huge fibroid so feel your pain, there is honestly no downside for me. Having no periods is bliss

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