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Sexually inactive people don't need smears? I always thought it was a myth

35 replies

Mindovermatter45 · 19/04/2025 11:56

Hi,

I'm just interested, I got talking to someone who said smear tests aren't generally needed if you are or have never been sexually active? I always thought it a myth but they said if you aren't sexually active and they (medics) can actually see this for themselves? the risk is always going to be lower.

Again I don't know how true this is, my gran's sister a proud spinster had women's cancer.

I remember seeing when I went for a private scan last time, the clinic made a point of saying if you are a virgin, internals are not recommended.

Are these myths?

OP posts:
MadamDicey · 22/04/2025 11:50

My best friend was a nun , she died from cervical cancer

Gwenhwyfar · 26/04/2025 16:23

Mrsttcno1 · 19/04/2025 16:31

One inaccuracy that both previous posters have stated which I really wanted to point out because it’s so important that women are fully aware of the facts on this- it is not true that if you tested negative for HPV a few years ago and haven’t had sex since then you’re safe. HPV can lay dormant for YEARS, literally for decades, and then can become active and so you could test positive today as a result of an infection you actually picked up 15 years ago, even after having negative smears in that time.

The only time when you could really say you’re as safe as can be is if you have never had sex at all.

That is true. However, when I had been celibate for over ten years, my GP took me off the list for smear tests.
Then, I saw a gynaecologist for something else. She didn't agree with this and put me back on. So it's obviously a bit of a grey area for long-term celibates.

This was with the old style smear test where all cells were looked, regardless of whether you tested for HPV, so in theory a virgin could develop a type of cervical cancer not caused by HPV, but the test would be painful and difficult for some virgins so the NHS's position (for virgins) was something like 'it's not recommended, but you can have one if you want'. Now, as they only look at cells where HPV is present there would be no point getting a smear for someone with no sexual history at all.

Gwenhwyfar · 26/04/2025 16:30

MadamDicey · 22/04/2025 11:50

My best friend was a nun , she died from cervical cancer

I didn't even know nuns could have best friends on the outside.
As others have pointed out, not all nuns are virgins. Some can be widows or whatever or they get one of the rare types of cervical cancers not caused by HPV. However, for those ones, there would be no point having a smear in the UK now as they only look at cells where the woman is HPV+.

PotatoFan · 26/04/2025 16:32

I had one smear test, at whatever age they first invite you, but I’ve never had sex and they said don’t come again if remain not sexually active as risk is too low

TeenyTotAndTiny · 12/05/2025 07:22

tillytoodles1 · 19/04/2025 21:18

She'd never even had a boyfriend, she was from a devout Catholic family and was about 16 when she became a no vice.

I doubt you or the family were privy to every intimate detail of her life.

As previous poster said the virus can be passed onto baby during pregnancy.

Also worth remembering that sexual abuse / rape happens and it’s not always disclosed.

Idontpostmuch · 22/09/2025 18:59

tillytoodles1 · 19/04/2025 21:18

She'd never even had a boyfriend, she was from a devout Catholic family and was about 16 when she became a no vice.

A yr ago nuns in Ghana were tested. Out of around 100, 25 tested pos for HPV.

DemonsandMosquitoes · 22/09/2025 20:03

Adviceplease2022 · 19/04/2025 17:14

I have been wondering this and actually asked my GP at my last smear and her answer was freaking useless. I asked what the point of a smear was if I was negative for HPV and hadn’t had sex with a new partner since my last smear. I was having a smear anyway (as I have no issues with them) but the reason for my question was curiosity because I understood that current smears only test for HPV, NOT for any abnormal cells. This is bonkers in my opinion but I understand is cost driven……

Anyway, GP basically couldn’t answer and said “oh that’s an interesting question - I’ll have to research it”….. 🙄

Ive since learnt that HPV can lay dormant so it therefore is worth being tested. A nurse friend also told me that they can also see how healthy your cervix is during the smear too although not sure if they would send it for a full check if it “looked” abnormal.

Key message ladies is don’t miss your cervical smears of mammograms!

We refer to gynaecology. I have referred many women with asymptomatic cervical polyps that have the potential to become cancerous.

Preparedforjobnottolast · 23/09/2025 19:48

within a month of posting I came down with necrotising fasciitis, it’s so hilarious I mean so funny to lose a limb I nearly died from laughter.

thefanisblowing · 23/09/2025 20:39

Just be warned that if you try to remove yourself from the reminders service, you might get a quite difficult/hostile response. For several reasons I decided I no longer wanted them and so I de-registered with the NHS England service but when news of this reached my GP, the practice nurse rang me no less than three times asking me to disclose my reasons and actually go in to see her and discuss. I get she was trying to do her job but I was very well informed and also, my reasons were none of her business. On the third call, I explained politely that I did not want to receive any more contact from her.

Spittykityy · 24/09/2025 16:17

thefanisblowing · 23/09/2025 20:39

Just be warned that if you try to remove yourself from the reminders service, you might get a quite difficult/hostile response. For several reasons I decided I no longer wanted them and so I de-registered with the NHS England service but when news of this reached my GP, the practice nurse rang me no less than three times asking me to disclose my reasons and actually go in to see her and discuss. I get she was trying to do her job but I was very well informed and also, my reasons were none of her business. On the third call, I explained politely that I did not want to receive any more contact from her.

Exactly! I opted out of screening but one GP still continued to hassle me about it, it took my pointing out that under data protection laws it's illegal to continue to hassle and opted out person about screening! Sadly sometimes it just doesn't sink in

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