I had to terminate a pregnancy earlier this year as my IUD moved and I fell pregnant (I already have 2 children and couldn’t afford a third). The experience was devastating. Afterwards, I had to have one of my fallopian tubes, and the migrated coil removed via a laparoscopy. I also had a new IUD fitted - I regret this now. But it’s in.
it was fitted whilst I was under GA and I feel really creeped out about a load of people rummaging around inside me and me having no knowledge of it. I am really scared of feeling the ‘string’ and feel a strong compulsion to avoid anything (even a tampon) going inside me. Let alone my partner!!
its really getting me down- I’ve just had a period and I had to use sanitary towels and period pants which I found disgusting and uncomfortable, but how can I shake his mental block ? I just feel like it’s totally off limits- even to myself.
My friend said she’s exactly the same and it’s coming up to 2 years since she’s let anything inside her - :(