I am 58 female, single, and no children. Size 18, 5 ft 7 inches. I have a young dog, and he is walked twice a day for at least 30 mins but frequently more. I am recently retired and consider myself lucky to be able to be retired. Although my pension isn't huge, I really HAD to leave work as I could no longer cope with the stress. I was in a job for a long time and was bullied and harrassed by someone but surrounded by non supportive management. Changed my job and where I lived as I realised it was the only way things would become better. Did another job for 2 years over covid, and it was very different, but I just couldn't face learning something so different with different challenges. The anxiety and stress were getting to me. I was also feeling my age, literally dragging myself out of bed. So I retired, got myself a dog (love him), and lost a couple of sizes thinking that this would change things for the better. Anything to do with my dogs needs i will do whatever needs to be done, but everything else i struggle with starting or completing. eg there is a room in my house that is my dump room and it has been like this for 2 years! I just have so little mojo and impetus to do anything. I am not depressed but is this a menopause thing or something else ??? I am not on hrt, I have been menopausal for about 6 years, is it too late to consider it, although I'm not a fan of pills as such.