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Reassurance.... possible pregnancy

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InAMess2023 · 06/12/2023 08:55

Wasn't sure where to post this....

I had an occasional friend with benefits who I last had sex with on 25/11. Next day I ended up cutting him off after he admitted that he now had a girlfriend (obviously I didn't know this beforehand).

We did use a condom but it slipped off at the crucial moment... at first I wasn't overly worried as my period had literally just finished that day but then 2 days later I checked my Flo app (I don't use it religiously) and it indicated that I was likely ovulating around that time. My cycles were regular until recently but seem to now be going completely haywire. I did get the morning after pill (the 5 day one) but it was taken towards the end of the window.

But I now feel really sick on a morning, not been sick though - surely it's just anxiety and I'm being a worrier?! BUT I also can't bear the thought of coffee either which is exactly what happened when my mum was pregnant with me - like immediately, from Day 1.

My period isn't due for another week so can't even take an early test just yet but I guess I'm just looking for a handhold/reassurance. I absolutely don't want children at all, my lifestyle is just not compatible and I'm not maternal whatsoever so I know what my decision would be if I did turn out to be pregnant. I don't even want to tell my now ex FWB if that was the case (he doesn't want kids either).

I also have endometriosis and was told it might be difficult for me to conceive... but the way my luck in life is going it wouldn't surprise me if an accidental pregnancy came next.

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