I got put on the referral list for umbilical hernia at my 8w postnatal mother/baby GP checkup earlier this year. I was told the wait time here in my NHS trust is 6months minimum, which I'm over, now.
Mine is the size of a golf ball and sticks out all the time, so much worse by the end of the day after a day's eating, or these days - after any eating!
I first raised it in 2020 (yes, you read that correctly) on the postnatal recovery ward after the birth of my first child. The ward doctor asked me "does it feel like a hernia?" Erm....no idea, it feels painful and not birth related. He told me I didn't know my body and it was heartburn, said I could waste his time and be put on Omeprazol to get me off the ward but I'll have to wait until he can do the paperwork many hours later (I'd already been in for a week), or I could be discharged and buy myself Gaviscon. I've had heartburn before, it wasn't heartburn. I didn't wait for Omeprazol or buy myself Gaviscon.
My GP dismissed me then too.
I then got pregnant and miscarried multiple times and with each pregnancy/miscarriage it got bigger and more obvious.
Then I got pregnant with my second child and the MW kept an eye on it as did my sonographer at scans where my GP wouldn't entertain it as a hernia.
Fast forward to baby birth, all fine, walk into my 8w postnatal appt and the first thing the (not my usual) GP said was "I see through your clothing you have a hernia. I'll refer you to the specialist..." I've been told not to lift anything heavy in the mean time!
I know I am certainly on the waiting list because I had a text from the NHS asking me to confirm whether I still needed to be on the list or if it had resolved by itself, apparently they need to ask every 12w as a new policy.
Mine has got worse so I'm chasing up my GP next week and after that I'm going private under my DHs employee health insurance family policy.