Hi all
I just wanted to share my journey incase it helped anyone....
March 2022 I started experiencing terrible itching at night all around the labia which I just couldn't help scratching. At this time I didn't really have sex due to being sore from the itching/scratching.
A month or 2 later I went for a smear test, I'm 38 so I've had many of these. But as soon as the speculum was inserted it felt like my insides were ripping apart. A few week later I tried having sex but it was like there was a block where my husband just couldn't get his penis in at all. Went to the g.p who said its vaginismus and Im just tensing up because Im scared, she did an exam where she inserted a finger and said she could feel me clamping up. I then went to a gynecologist for an endometrial ablation for unrelated issues and while I was there explained what happened and she said I just need to relax and breathe etc. No other help or resources offered.
Fast forward a year and a half to early August 2023. I have tried the g.p again in this time but keep getting fobbed off with "vaginismus" and being told I can try counselling even though I insisted its a physical issue not a mental one. I am still unable to have have sex and my labia keeps getting cuts. I went back to the g.p and insisted on another referral to a different gynecologist.
I attended my gynecologist appointment at the end of August and the gynecologist gave me my first thorough exam and diagnosed Lichen Sclerosus and told me that my vagina has indeed narrowed due to the condition. I was prescribed dermovate to use for 3 months and was recommended dilator treatment. I started dilating with femmax dialators but found they were difficult to insert due to the blunt tip so switched to amielle comfort dilators.
I have been following this treatment for a month and it has changed my life. The itching and cuts have disappeared. And I am able to have pain free sex for the first time in 1.5 years.
I just wanted to share because I was fobbed off so many times until I found a gynecologist who actually cared enough to listen. He did agree that there was secondary vaginismus but he said the clamping down was due to the pain of insertion because of the soreness, cuts and narrowed vagina.
Again I just wanted to share incase it helps even 1 person. And anyone struggling with dilatora should definitely look at amielle comfort dilators.