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Awful PMT. Anxious, headaches, emotional and angry. What worked for you please?

18 replies

WellPlaced · 28/06/2023 09:23

Help. Thank you x

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WellPlaced · 28/06/2023 20:36

Anyone?
I may have to post this in AIBU or Chat!

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Hawkins0001 · 29/06/2023 04:24

? All the best and positivity op

ILiveInAnAlternateDimension · 29/06/2023 12:23

Drastic but a hysterectomy at 39, then onto oestrogen patch😃

CosyCoffee · 29/06/2023 12:28

How old are you? My pmt pretty much stopped after I started HRT.

Summerhillsquare · 29/06/2023 12:34

Look up the Royal College of Gynaecologists guidance.

Findyourneutralspace · 29/06/2023 12:40

Mirena coil and sertraline for me. Sympathy. It’s hard going…

Teaandsympathy · 29/06/2023 12:46
  1. prioritise sleep 7-8 hours a night
  2. nutrition dense diet with plants and proteins first. Reduce dairy and gluten.
  3. exercise - walk everyday (8-12k steps) and workout a at least twice a week
  4. therapy, building good mental routines /practices

reduce or ideally stop alcohol and caffeine for a while.

1 year later of building the above and I look and feel like a different person.

Greedybilly · 29/06/2023 12:50

I was on the pill after years of suffering. Wish I'd done it sooner. Also all the usual sleep, vitamins,self care etc.x

Comety · 29/06/2023 13:06

It's not what anyone wants to hear but cutting out refined sugar and getting regular exercise changed my life and that of everyone around me

mizu · 29/06/2023 13:22

Gosh I went extreme and had a full hysterectomy Grin after years of issues including very heavy periods. I really feel your pain.

Again what others have said, if you don't already, lower sugar intake, alcohol intake.

Take magnesium and B vits.

MistyTrains · 29/06/2023 16:54

I am you! I do a lot of the above good things and they do help....however PMT is a fluctuation in hormones...estrogen dropping can cause anxiety, headaches can have multiple causes and triggers, and anger...I guess when estrogen drops we are left with circulating testosterone. The goal isn't too eliminate 100%, some degree of inflammatory response is normal when we have a period, but to get it to a manageable predictable level.

So....
>>Sufficient sleep. 4-5 hours is not enough. Be in bed by 9.30/10pm with lights off so you have enough time in bed to get the 7 hours you need. Best quality sleep happens between 10pm and 2am.
>>Water. Buy a 1 litre bottle and chug through the day. Even buy two.
>>Dial in your diet. Sooooo I was a massive sugar addict and the thing I realised is that if you eat sufficient complex unrefined carb and protein you crave sugar less! During PMT eat every 2 hours. The body needs glucose to make progesterone. Progesterone makes you calm. Eat lots of liver and gut friendly food. Protein reference intake is minimum 50g per person. Try and eat that by lunchtime and you will feel less anxious..the body keeps us eating until we have had enough protein. More is better for brain function IMHO.
>>Magnesium and B6 help, dark chocolate
>>Walks in nature (or a power walk if stressed!) and trying not to be over stimulated 🤣
>>Walk 8k minumum a day and exercise every other day. Have 1 total day off of exercise a week.
>>Try and foresee what is coming up that is going to cause stress during PMT week
>>Lists of what needs to ve finished so when your period comes you can have a little bit more rest time before the next cycle kicks in.

I get it. I still have days when I contemplate asking the GP for a drug then I convince myself it's fine 🤣

MistyTrains · 29/06/2023 17:00

On headaches, I sometimes take an antihistamine or anticongestion tablet like Sudafed. I also try and alternate days when I eat foods that are high in histamine/tyramine (tomatoes are a big culprit).

WellPlaced · 01/07/2023 16:17

Some great advice here.
Thank you so very much xxx

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Theseboobsweremadeforwalking · 06/07/2023 22:49

Fluoxetine can be taken for pmt week only, it helped get in right head space to tackle nutrition, exercise etc as above. Also I'm a fan of beta blockers but not sure how sound they are to recommend (although my doctor has prescribed me both in the past)

Theseboobsweremadeforwalking · 06/07/2023 22:51

Oh I also period plan via an app now, it's pretty accurate so can see when pmt is coming and try and avoid social activities as much as possible in that time.

Bikingwithbabies · 06/07/2023 22:53

Increased dose of sertraline for 7-10 days before I'm due (I take it anyway), B12, primrose, magnesium food supplements daily all month. And the healthy living advice others have given

Muhwanda · 06/07/2023 23:02

How old are you @WellPlaced ? I only started really detailed tracking of my periods in my late 30s after many years being in the pill with no periods. Knowing that what I was experiencing was ‘normal’ and the same every month made it a lot easier to manage. (I appreciate you may have been doing this for ever, it was a total revelation to me!)

PepperRed · 10/07/2023 07:52

Eating healthily cured my horrid black mood. No processed food and up the veggies. It was amazing to me. If I slipped symptoms would come back.

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