Getting an ADHD diagnosis

[MsPolly]

Can anyone who's got a later in life ADHD diagnosis tell me about their experience.
I've always been one that struggles to focus, leaves deadlines to the very last minute, jumps from project to project and my brain just feels a chaotic mess. I have to make a conscious effort not to interrupt in conversations, am messy no matter how many times I reset and plan on keeping things tidy. Things have only been made worse or maybe I just can't hide my symptoms as well since having children.

Reading similar threads on here led me down a rabbit hole of ADHD in women and it all seems to make perfect sense.

I'm now at a point where I should speak to my doctor about this but I'm worried if I'm honest that I won't be taken seriously.
If I could hear some of other peoples experiences I would really appreciate.

I'm watching with interest as I'm considering asking for a referral from my GP as well.

I’ve been referred by GP, I’ve been told it’s a 2 year waiting list. I’m devastated in all honesty as I can’t afford to go private. Every time I hear another celebrity come out with adhd or autism diagnosis it’s because they’ve been rich enough to afford it (self admitted by most), it’s a struggle daily and I’m on verge most days 😞

Be prepared for a 4-5 year wait if u want nhs diagnosis. If not go private.

what do u hope to get out of the diagnosis?

@Skybluepinky To confirm if I do actually have ADHD and explore treatment/management options. Unfortunately private isn't an option I could maybe get enough money together for the diagnosis but not the ongoing payment for any potential medication

@Theresasnakeinmaboot try looking into Right to choose with psychiatry uk apparently much shorter waiting times

I am in the same place as you.

I am unsure about pushing for an NHS diagnosis or paying for a private diagnosis because I wonder what the benefit will be. What will actually change that can't change without a diagnosis?

@MsPolly thank you for that. This is definitely a route i’ll look to go down.

@HappyAsASandboy i suppose it depends on how much it effects you. It’s effecting me daily, i’m hoping appropriate meds and talking therapy will help, I’ve been told I can only access this with a diagnosis. I also have OCD so the 2 are conflicting with each other and with 3 young DC it’s incredibly that’s why i’m pushing for it now because I’m incredibly overwhelmed at my life.

Only available to English patients, sadly.